Tree Falls

Thank you for the literature pointers.

But my guess is that you didn't give him a skill saw at age 4. I don't think anyone disagrees with the idea that kids should be given age appropriate ...

There are a lot of countries (such as Scandinavian countries) where sex doesn't have much of a stigma. I submit that even in those countries, a mid-40...

Nope. I've been an atheist since the age of 11. I am currently living in sin with a woman ;-)

Thank you for your insights. I hadn't considered that my friends might suffer indirectly through my actions. In the beginning, I had thought that any ...

It might not be dispositive, but it is certainly suggestive and worth taking seriously when it involves experiences that you and I don't have. As an a...

Greater experience in an area that the girl doesn't have experience in.

You judge my brother's actions as neutral. I am not sure of your basis for that judgment. I say that my brother is psychologically hurting many of the...

So you don't think that adult women who have to care for their daughters have more insight into their sexual and psychological vulnerabilities than yo...

Do you think it's relevant that most likely over 90% of mothers who have daughters would think my brother's behavior is deplorable? Perhaps you could ...

I think that's a great point. I agree.

Thank you for your reasoned reply. Yes, I agree. I also agree. I am pretty much convinced that it isn't my position to put up a website. I should see ...

What do you make of Bitter Crank's point that I am not a court?

Great point. Would the difference between telling my friends and telling the world be the private versus public nature of the statement?

Could you expand on why you think a public warning seems too much?

Wow, thanks for taking a stand and biting the bullet of consistency. No one else has. The easiest way out for me is to tell my friend but not build th...

No. They were about politics, religion, life. They were never serious enough to cause a rupture. Before these events, I would have died for my brother...

The first complaint was made by a girl who tried to blackmail my brother after they slept together. Whether the sleeping together included sex or not ...

Age: mid-century. Straight. Older than my brother. We had a pretty close, but argumentative relationship before his arrests. Since then, hardly any re...

Two of the girls complained to the police. But it's possible that the overwhelming majority of the girls had positive experiences with my brother. I d...

No. My problem is determining the right action to take. So, to clarify, you wouldn't tell your friend that your brother might try to have sex with his...

Thank you for your perspective. I totally get where you are coming from. But I think you are not facing directly my dilemma in the above quote. You, a...

I appreciate the comments. It certainly helps to get outside perspective on something that I can't share with friends. My long time partner knows, but...