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Can one provide a reason to live?

JacobPhilosophy April 08, 2020 at 19:02 13925 views 97 comments
I know that this may sound pretentious or unnecessarily "edgy" but I am genuinely trying to enquire about a difficult and unfalsifiable subsection of metaphysics: death and the value of life. From my research, most philosophers, most notably Socrates, conclude that death is not inherently bad, but also that life is worth living; These two premises are contradictory in my opinion. If something (life) is worth keeping, then surely the removal of said thing is inherently negative, no? In conclusion, I do not believe that anyone can provide a reason for me not to end my life tomorrow (hypothetically, I'm not suicidal by any means), other than "because you may aswell live". In my personal opinion the length of one's life is not a factor when determining whether the ending of it was negative or not. Once one is dead, one is indifferent to such event, and indifferent to the life from which was lived, therefore length and memory are invalid to the state of non-existence, as death and not having been born are an identical state in my opinion.

I am incredibly curious as to how much more intelligent people answer the question provided by the title of the thread. I'm new to this forum so I hope that this is to standard and isn't removed.

This was originally a Question but I have changed the category to debate, because I do not believe that I am able to mark a comment as having answered the question, as it is incredibly subjective.

I would like to develop a previous point: Life cannot be both worth living and acceptable in ending. One of these premeses has to be false, either life is not worth living (and therefore there is no reason not to end it) or death is inherently bad (and therefore should be feared). This presents an interesting dilemma as neither outcome is particularly desirable in my opinion: either fear death or kill yourself.

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A Seagull April 08, 2020 at 19:07 #400196
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
death is not inherently bad, but also that life is worth living; These two premises are contradictory in my opinion. If something (life) is worth keeping, then surely the removal of said thing is inherently negative, no?


Death is a part of life, just as much as birth.
JacobPhilosophy April 08, 2020 at 19:09 #400197
Reply to A Seagull
I don't agree. I agree with the sentiment that it is unavoidable and natural, but death is, by definition, the absence of life. I believe your comment not to be applicable to my query.
bongo fury April 08, 2020 at 19:41 #400205
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
Once one is dead, one is indifferent to such event,


But also unable to increase the sum of human happiness, which one has almost certainly just measurably reduced.
ChrisH April 08, 2020 at 19:49 #400208
Reply to JacobPhilosophy

a reason to live?

To find out what happens next.
A Seagull April 08, 2020 at 19:52 #400210
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
?A Seagull
I don't agree. I agree with the sentiment that it is unavoidable and natural, but death is, by definition, the absence of life. I believe your comment not to be applicable to my query.


Well that is your choice.
Echarmion April 08, 2020 at 20:02 #400212
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
I do not believe that anyone can provide a reason for me not to end my life tomorrow (hypothetically, I'm not suicidal by any means), other than "because you may aswell live". In my personal opinion the length of one's life is not a factor when determining whether the ending of it was negative or not.


Well, there is a chance of there either being an afterlife, or a method of acquiring immortality, which would be an argument about whimsically taking your own life.
Andrew4Handel April 08, 2020 at 20:33 #400217
I think a problem with a lack of meaning is that it makes neither living or dying meaningful.

I am agnostic about whether life has meaning so I can't rule it out.

I do feel like philosophers are defeatist though and settle for a weak conclusion rather than examing the hard conclusions of a stance.
Anthony April 08, 2020 at 20:36 #400218
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
I am genuinely trying to enquire about a difficult and unfalsifiable subsection of metaphysics


When pondering the meaning of life...using the criterion of falsifiability is misplaced. Neither you nor I can say why we exist. There is always incomplete information to any model you take. The assumption of equating your life with a scientific, or technocratic experiment is a very big one. Man did not give rise to man. We have budded from a substrate far beyond our reckoning. If we don't have free-will, it doesn't mean you're programmed by something else either. There are unknowns...many, many unknowns.

Andrew4Handel April 08, 2020 at 20:40 #400219
I think general agnosticism is a strong position where you try and avoid making false judgements by over confidence.

But I think it is possible that life is terribly meaningless and that we shouldn't try and mitigate that conclusion by sentiment or vagueness.

I do find it hard to understand peoples rational motivations because life is so complex that it seems seems very hard to evaluate what people ought to believe.
Tim3003 April 08, 2020 at 20:50 #400220
Why is it that you need a reason to live? Given that you were born, living is your natural state; surely your question should be 'is there a reason to end your life?'. Of all the life-forms on earth only man ever questions whether he has a reason to live, and then only when he's idle..
JacobPhilosophy April 08, 2020 at 20:59 #400224
Reply to Echarmion if these are the only answers (which I am not disregarding) then my cynical proposition remains as both are unrealistic.
Frank Apisa April 08, 2020 at 21:00 #400225
The question doesn't even exist for me...and I suspect that anyone who has to look for a reason...will never find it.

And that applies even if it is framed as an intellectual pursuit or "curiosity"...rather than as a personal search for a reason not to end a particular life.

I am of the "live and let live" school...which almost demand a concomitant "stay alive or end it...your choice" element.

That said, however, if you actually are contemplating suicide (despite your disclaimer)...think really long and hard about it. There is a good deal of finality about it.
JacobPhilosophy April 08, 2020 at 21:03 #400228
Reply to Tim3003 I agree completely with what you are saying, but feeling as though the only reason to live is "why not?" seems unsatisfactory to me.
JacobPhilosophy April 08, 2020 at 21:04 #400229
Reply to Frank Apisa I appreciate the discussion; it is deceptively difficult to actually search such a topic without being referred to a suicide hotline.
JacobPhilosophy April 08, 2020 at 21:10 #400232
I have added to my original post, and believe it to be an interesting dilemma.
Pinprick April 08, 2020 at 21:28 #400237
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
One of these premeses has to be false, either life is not worth living (and therefore there is no reason not to end it) or death is inherently bad (and therefore should be feared).


I don’t think that fearing death necessarily follows logically from the conclusion that it is bad. Your attitude towards it could be more stoic, or indifferent, or any number of things.
JacobPhilosophy April 08, 2020 at 21:43 #400244
Reply to Pinprick I personally tend to fear negative things :/
Andrew4Handel April 08, 2020 at 22:06 #400249
Reply to JacobPhilosophy If you enjoy any aspect of life then that is reason to live.

Another is whether you should create new life if you think life is fundamentally pointless.
Valentinus April 08, 2020 at 22:06 #400250
The dilemma you propose by saying: "Life cannot be both worth living and acceptable in ending", assumes your life belongs to you just because you are given life. It is yours to live or not but it does not belong to you on the basis of being able to end it. It only belongs to you if you try to live.

Not having a really shitty life depends on many coincident elements. Many of them are well outside of our control. But some margin of possibility in us can either be preserved or not. You don't have to kill yourself to let yourself die. You do have to live in order to live.
Andrew4Handel April 08, 2020 at 22:16 #400252
I think fear of death is rational.

You might fear death ending your goals and pleasures prematurely.

You might see it as negating your efforts.

You might be worried about a bad afterlife or just the ending of yourself.

You might fear a painful or protracted death.

But as a general agnostic I can't say I know what my death will entail.
JacobPhilosophy April 08, 2020 at 22:17 #400254
Reply to Andrew4Handel I hear you. Antinatalism is what led me to this train of thought, as I found myself agreeing with a lot of the points. An antinatalist, referring to the asymmetry, may say that life is a bad movie, that isn't worth starting but may aswell be finished. This analogy is similar to my unsatisfactory "why not" justification. In addition, the implication of antinatalism is ultimately extinction, which is uncomfortable to think about, but not necessarily a negative outcome. As not having been born and dying are identical states, accepting that not having been born is not a bad thing, in my opinion, leads to questioning whether ending life is a bad thing.
JacobPhilosophy April 08, 2020 at 22:23 #400255
I'd like to conclude by saying that we live due to intrinsic and subconscious survival instincts, but overtly due to pleasure. Within this life, suffering to all sentient beings must be minimised, and subjective meaning (or essence as Aristotle referred to) should be found, in a strive towards happiness. Although life may end, proceeded by a dreamless sleep, there is no reason not to live, and enjoy life in the present tense, as some existential fears and queries are incomprehensible, and should therefore not lead to permanent means (suicide). Thank you to everyone for a development of my understanding.
Andrew4Handel April 08, 2020 at 22:26 #400256
Reply to JacobPhilosophy I think personal extinction is inevitable unless there is an afterlife. I have asked in the past why people care about a future they won't be in or have access to after they die.

For example I don't think any of Hitler's ancestors could have predicted his impact on the world just like no one really knows what their future impact will be.

But as an agnostic about meaning and the afterlife I cannot categorically and honestly rule out some kind of underlying purpose to reaIity.

But I think we shouldn't resort to platitudes or make things up. It seems the current pandemic is shaking up perspectives though.
180 Proof April 08, 2020 at 22:31 #400257
"Meaning" presupposes life. Thus, this 'perennial question' is incoherent (i.e. pseudo). The hand is dealt: play it and be played. "That's life ..." (Sinatra). Fuckin' entropy! Besides, what difference can [the] cosmic / ultimate "meaning" (i.e. reason) make to ecology-situated / proximate persons? (Zapffe, Camus) "I've got a right to sing the blues" ... "Everybody wants to go to heaven / But nobody wants to die" ... "Well, you can't spend what you ain't got / You can't lose what you ain't never had" ... "I know my Mama loves me / But she may be jivin' too" ... " Amor fati, bitches! :rofl:

Quoting JacobPhilosophy
This presents an interesting dilemma as neither outcome is particularly desirable in my opinion: either fear death or kill yourself.

:roll:

Memento mori. :death: Memento vivere. :flower:

[quote=Albert Murray]We invented the blues; Europeans invented psychoanalysis. You invent what you need.[/quote]

:sweat:

[i]"In the morning
Want to die
In the evening
Want to die
If I ain't dead already
Oh, girl, you know the reason why"[/i]
JacobPhilosophy April 08, 2020 at 22:31 #400258
Reply to Andrew4Handel I agree with everything stated here. Another thought is, if it doesn't matter THAT humanity becomes extinct (it is inevitable), why would it matter WHEN it does? It certainly feels wrong to accept that if all were to die instantly and painlessly tomorrow, there would be no issue (in terms of suffering or desire as death is a state of non-existence), but that doesn't mean that it isn't the rational conclusion. While we live, we live and when we don't, we don't.
JacobPhilosophy April 08, 2020 at 22:33 #400259
Reply to 180 Proof it was partially cynical hyperbole.
DingoJones April 08, 2020 at 23:17 #400272
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
I would like to develop a previous point: Life cannot be both worth living and acceptable in ending.


I dont think that makes sense. If you swap out life for other things your logic doesnt seem to hold, and so you would need to show why life in particular works this way and you havent. I dont see how you can.
For example, “a game of hockey cannot be both worth playing and acceptable in ending”.
Of course it can both.
“My favourite book cannot both be worth reading and acceptable in ending”.
Of course it can be both.
And so on, for any number if things other than life. Why does the logic change in the case of life? Also, you are essentially saying that things worth doing cannot end unless they arent/werent worth doing to start with. I think thats clearly not the case.
Andrew4Handel April 09, 2020 at 00:06 #400282
Reply to JacobPhilosophy I think there would have to be some reason to end life prematurely rather than await its inevitable cessation. What would be the reason for ending life wilfully?

I think there is a difference between maintaining yourself as a means of preventing pain or pursuing basic pleasure as opposed to giving a specific reason for prolonging and creating life.

Pain and pleasure are probably more relevant to the maintainance of life than reason.
Reason probably can't resolve the dilemma.
Andrew4Handel April 09, 2020 at 00:11 #400284
Reply to DingoJones A book and a game of hockey have a coherent ending not an arbitrary one.
christian2017 April 09, 2020 at 00:15 #400285
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
I know that this may sound pretentious or unnecessarily "edgy" but I am genuinely trying to enquire about a difficult and unfalsifiable subsection of metaphysics: death and the value of life. From my research, most philosophers, most notably Socrates, conclude that death is not inherently bad, but also that life is worth living; These two premises are contradictory in my opinion. If something (life) is worth keeping, then surely the removal of said thing is inherently negative, no? In conclusion, I do not believe that anyone can provide a reason for me not to end my life tomorrow (hypothetically, I'm not suicidal by any means), other than "because you may aswell live". In my personal opinion the length of one's life is not a factor when determining whether the ending of it was negative or not. Once one is dead, one is indifferent to such event, and indifferent to the life from which was lived, therefore length and memory are invalid to the state of non-existence, as death and not having been born are an identical state in my opinion.

I am incredibly curious as to how much more intelligent people answer the question provided by the title of the thread. I'm new to this forum so I hope that this is to standard and isn't removed.

This was originally a Question but I have changed the category to debate, because I do not believe that I am able to mark a comment as having answered the question, as it is incredibly subjective.

I would like to develop a previous point: Life cannot be both worth living and acceptable in ending. One of these premeses has to be false, either life is not worth living (and therefore there is no reason not to end it) or death is inherently bad (and therefore should be feared). This presents an interesting dilemma as neither outcome is particularly desirable in my opinion: either fear death or kill yourself.


I"m apart of a political party called, Shark Fighter Nation

#Shark_Fighter_Nation

this includes:

fighting a rattle snake with pair of garden shears

bears, alligators, Bobcats, poisonous snakes and ofcourse sky diving.

There are alternatives to suicide.

Whether there is a after life or not, there is no reason to commit suicide.

Every last suicide tears a huge hole in society. Mothers get real up set when such things happen too.

There are alternatives to suicide.

Possibility April 09, 2020 at 03:35 #400311
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
I would like to develop a previous point: Life cannot be both worth living and acceptable in ending. One of these premeses has to be false, either life is not worth living (and therefore there is no reason not to end it) or death is inherently bad (and therefore should be feared). This presents an interesting dilemma as neither outcome is particularly desirable in my opinion: either fear death or kill yourself.


This is a rather simplified view of life and death. Life has a complex structure of value and potential that is both positive and negative, but it is also limited - that’s not a contradiction. It is the way that you structure and then collapse this potential information that results in a reduction to ‘either fear death or kill yourself’. Every action we take is a result of collapsing this potential information in relation to interacting, ever-changing and limited events, but I think we need to always remember that the potential information itself is irreducible. There is much more to life as a potentiality than whether or not to evade death.
DingoJones April 09, 2020 at 03:53 #400313
Reply to Andrew4Handel

The end of life is arbitrary? Seems pretty cut and dry to me, you read the book and it ends when your done reading, you live the life and it ends when you die.
Life may have an arbitrary quality to it in the sense that you dont know when you're going to die or how, but that isnt the same as what the examples of hockey and a book illustrate about the failed logic of the premiss that something cannot both be worthwhile and acceptable in ending.
The point is not how or when it ends but only that it ends. It is worthwhile, and is acceptable in ending. Its both, and there is still no good reason to think life is an exception. Its something you do that is worthwhile, and is acceptable in ending. Just like the book, you may not want it to end but it must, and often that it ends is part of what makes it worthwhile.
In that this relates to anti-natalism, it is the same petulant, juvenile kind of perspective, focusing on not experiencing “bad” things instead of appreciating the beauty that can result from them. Adversity is the mechanism for growth and maturity, and is worthwhile for that reason.
TheMadFool April 09, 2020 at 07:20 #400339
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
Life cannot be both worth living and acceptable in ending. One of these premeses has to be false, either life is not worth living (and therefore there is no reason not to end it) or death is inherently bad (and therefore should be feared). This presents an interesting dilemma as neither outcome is particularly desirable in my opinion: either fear death or kill yourself.


Speaking for myself, and hopefully shedding some light on what you presume to be a conundrum, life is worth living for it's a prerequisite for pleasure - the dead can't be pleased. Too hedonistic? Look at the reasons for suicide - mostly has to do with pain and subsequent depression (sorrow). The problem for the living comes to a sharp focus because life invariably involves pain - for the lucky it may be minor and for the hapless the pain may become insufferable. So, we must navigate through life, seeking out pleasure and where we find it drink to our fill and at the same time avoid painful life-negating experiences. In short, life is worth only as much as the pleasure we get in experiencing it.

As for death, its fearsome reputation is explicable in terms of the positive impression we have of life - life is good and so death, the end of life, has to be sad, bad and scary. I believe the fear of death diminishes proportionally to the amount of pain experienced in living (suicide). However, if one is to recognize the fact of its inevitability, we can begin to draw some amount of comfort from it and begin to accept our appointment with the grim reaper, an appointment that we can possibly postpone but never cancel.

Life is still good but our death is as certain as Socrates' own demise. Isn't it logical then that we should appreciate life and accept death. The bottomline is that death is acceptable, not because there's anything wrong with the value of life but because it's inescapable. There doesn't seem to be a contradiction.
JacobPhilosophy April 09, 2020 at 08:20 #400348
Reply to TheMadFool Reply to DingoJones I think someone once used the analogy that just because I'm enjoying a meal, doesn't mean I have to be sad when I am finished. However, if I went to an event and enjoyed it, only to have had my memory of the past week wiped, I would argue that there was no purpose in going to said event. If I knew that this memory wipe was approaching, I wouldn't bother doing anything that week, as I wouldn't recall it.
Ps I can't figure out how to quite effectively
jjAmEs April 09, 2020 at 08:20 #400349
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
From my research, most philosophers, most notably Socrates, conclude that death is not inherently bad, but also that life is worth living; These two premises are contradictory in my opinion. If something (life) is worth keeping, then surely the removal of said thing is inherently negative, no?


You make some good points. Let's recall that Socrates was an old man with a fixed self-image. Dying the way he did was one of the most interesting things he could do with the time he had left. It was a deed he could add to his words, a nice period. Imagine him sneaking off. He had a legacy to think of. Isn't it beautiful that a rational old man could walk calmly into the mystery/abyss/void?

More generally, let's assume that death is just non-existence. If life is good, then the movement from some positive value to a neutral zero is indeed a loss. (I agree with you.) Of course our judgment of whether a life is good (worth clinging to) depends on all kinds of things, but that's a different issue.
JacobPhilosophy April 09, 2020 at 08:25 #400351
Reply to jjAmEs Its mainly the indifference to having lived that is a conundrum to me. If my parents weren't to have conceived me, then there would be no loss there. However, if I die, it is therefore a tragedy. As I will not have memory of having lived, not being born and dying are identical states to me. Therefore, it shouldn't matter when or how I die.
TheMadFool April 09, 2020 at 08:53 #400357
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
I think someone once used the analogy that just because I'm enjoying a meal, doesn't mean I have to be sad when I am finished. However, if I went to an event and enjoyed it, only to have had my memory of the past week wiped, I would argue that there was no purpose in going to said event. If I knew that this memory wipe was approaching, I wouldn't bother doing anything that week, as I wouldn't recall it.
Ps I can't figure out how to quite effectively


Good point but what's the purpose of memory? Is it to allow you to experience pleasure repeatedly with each recollection of a pleasurable experience? To my reckoning, memory if it is at all relevant in re death is just another way of expressing that universal, fervent desire to escape death - we seem to regard the continuity of our memories as an evidence of something that doesn't change as we live and the hope is that this unchanging soul continues on even after death. This deeply-rooted intuition is clearly evident in the scenario you described: you wouldn't want to experience pleasure if that pleasure isn't recorded for future reference for that entails no continuity, no self, no soul as it were.

While it seems that life isn't worth it if death is final, it does make sense to make the best of our time alive, no? That seems to be the general consensus among people in my opinion. You may not remember the enjoyable event but you're there and you have nothing better to do; might as well enjoy the event.

I believe there's someone with a memory illness like the one you described: this person's short-term memory is normal but his long-term memory is faulty. This person is then is in the exact situation you described but he seems to have come to terms with his condition which brings us back to the notion of acceptance as an appropriate response to what are inescapable truths.
jjAmEs April 09, 2020 at 08:59 #400359
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
Its mainly the indifference to having lived that is a conundrum to me. If my parents weren't to have conceived me, then there would be no loss there. However, if I die, it is therefore a tragedy. As I will not have memory of having lived, not being born and dying are identical states to me. Therefore, it shouldn't matter when or how I die.


I can relate. I connect this to the future-orientedness of human beings. We can imagine ourselves so far ahead in the future that all becomes absurd and unreal. Yet in general being future-oriented in a non-radical way is a sign of intelligence and prudence.

It's a good example of logic having a strange result. Because surely it matters right now to you, but you say it shouldn't. What backgrounded framework grounds that shouldn't? I relate to what you say, so I'm not immune to that framework. I'm just interested in whether we can take a certain distance from it, see it from the outside.
JacobPhilosophy April 09, 2020 at 09:15 #400361
Reply to TheMadFool I've watched a documentary about the man with the seven second memory and, to no offense to the victim, I find that to be the worst torture imaginable. In my opinion, if it were me, that state is similar to death as he claimed to have been "conscious" for the first time in the years since his disease took over, but he claims this every seven seconds in an endless prison of his own nothingness. I personally would rather be dead, and have incredible respect for his acceptance of it.
Possibility April 09, 2020 at 09:53 #400367
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
I think someone once used the analogy that just because I'm enjoying a meal, doesn't mean I have to be sad when I am finished. However, if I went to an event and enjoyed it, only to have had my memory of the past week wiped, I would argue that there was no purpose in going to said event. If I knew that this memory wipe was approaching, I wouldn't bother doing anything that week, as I wouldn't recall it.


If I knew this memory wipe was approaching, I would enjoy the event and find a way to express that enjoyment in a lasting way: whether that’s in a diary, or sharing my experience with someone for whom my experience matters. Your life is not about its meaning for you, in the end. You’ll be dead, after all. I think that enjoyment, once shared, has the potential to come back around to us in some form or another through our relationships with others. But then I’m a glass-half-full kinda thinker.

For a light-hearted look at this topic, watch ‘50 First Dates’. It’s surprisingly thoughtful.
DingoJones April 09, 2020 at 13:58 #400395
Reply to JacobPhilosophy

Well ya, the memory wipe is removing the experience and the experience is what makes the thing worthwhile. However, this scenario does nothing to make sense of your claim that something cannot be worthwhile and acceptable in ending. The mind wipe is just an ad hoc attempt to hold onto a point that still fails and Im sorry to say that it doesnt make much sense either. Once you introduce the mind wipe, then your original point can no longer be made since it refers to that experience (the end of it, of life). Even if you make another ad hoc adjustment to not include the end as part of the experience then you haven't said anything interesting at all, youd just be pointing out that if you only experience something negative and specifically do not experience what makes that negative thing worth going through then this negative thing isnt worthwhile. Thats not saying much at all, so Im afraid youve fallen quite short here.
Tim3003 April 09, 2020 at 19:40 #400469
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
?Tim3003
I agree completely with what you are saying, but feeling as though the only reason to live is "why not?" seems unsatisfactory to me.


So find your reasons to live! I suspect that won't be done intellectually but through trying 'life' and seeing what appeals.. From my experience you cannot find reasons to live from an ivory tower, you have to get stuck in and let your reactions tell you what's worthwhile and what isn't. We 'philosophers' may think we're highly evolved but we are animals at heart with the same drives and needs as anyone else.
Pinprick April 09, 2020 at 20:28 #400494
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
I personally tend to fear negative things :/


Sure, but it doesn’t mean you have to. That’s all I’m saying
Gregory April 09, 2020 at 20:54 #400506
The secret of sophia is to keep a 50/50 proportion of objectivity and subjectivity in one's life, those terms understood philosophically
TheMadFool April 10, 2020 at 05:56 #400648
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
I've watched a documentary about the man with the seven second memory and, to no offense to the victim, I find that to be the worst torture imaginable. In my opinion, if it were me, that state is similar to death as he claimed to have been "conscious" for the first time in the years since his disease took over, but he claims this every seven seconds in an endless prison of his own nothingness. I personally would rather be dead, and have incredible respect for his acceptance of it.


Indeed, if one gives it some thought, to have a 7 second memory is identical to dying every 7 seconds. I wonder what death would mean to such a person? John Locke was of the opinion that a person's identity was defined by faers memories.
Braindead May 19, 2020 at 16:11 #414059
When I think about emotional topics I tend to focus on the more “scientific” approach first to help organize my thoughts. In the case of life and death, from a biological perspective, living organisms are creatures of order. Personally I believe the “greatest” law of the universe to be balance, and order is the result of one such balance. Order is the organization of particles and the maintenance of the resulting material. As such, living organisms also naturally have such a purpose. This is mainly achieved through reproduction as a replacement after death in order to keep the balance. In other words, having kids and living long is the biological purpose of living organisms. However, humans are more than the average animal. We no longer act mostly on instinct and are capable of decisions contradicting our natural purpose, such as suicide. Perhaps another example of balance is that in exchange for being able to make decisions, we also must fulfill an emotional purpose that directs our decisions in order to maintain the will to live. Not having the emotional purpose does not mean we have no purpose in life, but that we are simply unsatisfied with living without one. Most people will feel the need to have an emotional purpose, so not having one gives the illusion that life is meaningless, making death seem acceptable. As for whether life is worth living, worth is just a concept created by humans, maybe even as a result of the emotional purpose I just mentioned. I see life as something we can enjoy, since nothing is guaranteed after death, we might as well take advantage of the joy having an emotional purpose can give us.
neonspectraltoast May 19, 2020 at 18:54 #414107
If it's all the same, whether we live or die, why choose death. In such an instance, life and death are too similarly worthless to choose one over the other.

Is it just that it's more inconvenient to be aware of the absurdity of one's existence than to be unaware of the absurdity of one's nonexistence.

Honestly I revel in the absurd, so I'm not going to search for a solution in death.

I'm not so fatalist, though. I don't know if death is ultimately survivable, but judging from first-person accounts, it's revelatory, and I look forward to that, regardless of how short-lived it may be.
Neuron420 May 20, 2020 at 23:01 #414444
Chose to continue to live, because, you may not feel like living today, but tomorrow you may find reasons to live.
Changeling May 20, 2020 at 23:05 #414446
Judaka May 21, 2020 at 05:03 #414532
Reply to JacobPhilosophy
There are infinite reasons to give for living, evaluating them by whether or not they're compelling or objective is a choice. If someone gives a reason for living and you say their reason is not objectively true and therefore invalid, you have missed how your argument lacks any objective validity. You are just like the others, you have opinions and reasons for doing/thinking things which are not going to be agreed upon by everyone, they're subjective and whether or not they're compelling, valid or rational to you or anyone else doesn't help fundamentally change the subjective nature of opinions.

It is asinine to reject reasons for living based on their subjective nature, there are no reasons for any action that aren't subjective and I would describe it as a complete misunderstanding on the subjective/objective dichotomy.


Becky June 07, 2020 at 15:26 #421279
Personally, I look forward to death. To be rid of this physical being will be a blessing. However to quote Woody Allen “If I wasn’t such a chicken I kill myself”.And on the other hand, when I 1st took acid, I realized there was a reason for me to be. I didn’t understand that reason, but it was there.
Benj96 June 07, 2020 at 16:52 #421299
In my opinion a reason to live is "uniqueness", "rarity" and the "static moment of living."

You have this life that no one else will ever have. You have an experience, a set of insights, thought patterns, behaviour, a quality to your personality that no one else can ever replicate because they will never be you. You occupy this finite space with your body, a space that - though ever changing in relativity to all other spaces as you move around in the world, can never be occupied by another in its entirety, can never be claimed or possessed by another. It is you. Your DNA, your systems of function, your biology and organisation of matter will never again be in this exact configuration that makes a "you".

Being alive is a stasis in a sense. Like the solidification of self in a sea of non-living. Homeostasis keeps you organised and fit to live. The amount of information and organised systematic exchange and interaction it takes to keep you from dying, to keep you from falling apart into a soup of trillions of disorganised molecules is unfathomable.

Life in this sense is a Rock and death is a fluid. Statistically for the duration of the universe you are going to spend a long long time, a lot more, as a fluid of matter and energy aimlessly being passed around possibly unaware and devoid of conscious sense at all that you were once a "you"...but for this blink in time, this brief lifespan moment in everything, you are a rock that is in dynamic equilibrium maintaining its object and the phenomena associated to that object.

So for the sake of diversity of being, this is the moment where you can do all the things living things do. And when you are dead you will do all the things dead things do. Both are states of being and existence in the universe it's just that this current one is seemingly the only in which you can discuss that fact.

Becky June 07, 2020 at 17:39 #421303
Personally, I can’t wait. To be rid of this physical being. To be energy. Are we still trapped by time?
schopenhauer1 June 07, 2020 at 18:31 #421321
Quoting Becky
Personally, I can’t wait. To be rid of this physical being. To be energy. Are we still trapped by time?


A sunny day, a sunset, beautiful landscape, novel experiences (seeing a new place, trying a new thing), seeing old friends, sharing life experiences with others, aesthetic or sublime states from art and nature, music, humor, laughing, flow states, creative endeavors (projects, writing, designing, music and art creation), engaging discussions, engaging dramas, tragedies, comedies, and stories, new understanding of something, seeing something in a different way, relationships, friendships, accomplishment, physical pleasures such as moderate drinking, exercise high, moderate eating of good food. This is more-or-less what you will see when people say why we should live.

So it all starts from being born in the first place. Whether the parent knows it or not, they are making a political and philosophical decision when having a new person. They believe life is good enough to make a decision for someone else to be born into. They like their way of life, and want to perpetuate that to others. Now, this doesn't include unintended pregnancies and birth (though it may because abortion is available but other ethical ideas might make this murky for certain people). However, most people see birth as something that is good. However, is it?

My main question is: Is a world not even close to a utopia worth being born into?

A utopia is achievable. No, not in this universe, true. It is conceivable but not achievable. This is a world where we must cope, accept what is not ideal, change expectations, adapt, overcome, survive, maintain, and find entertainment. It's a world where we are constantly lacking, and not totally satisfied for long.

If we distill it down to a basic principle, we can see that involves a basic lacking principle. The philosopher, Arthur Schopenhauer called this principle "Will". Whatever you call it, the principle is the same. It manifests in survival, maintenance, and seeking entertainment. That is where all desires spring from. There is also the day-to-day absurdities of repetition. The world turns, over and over. We eat, crap, sleep, repeat. The absurdity of maintaining and entertaining. There are the whole myriad of uncountable contingent harms of circumstance. These are harms that happen on a daily basis: frustrations, physical harm, humiliation, shame, annoyances, conflict with other people, social pressures, disappointments, uncomfortable environments, etc. etc.

In an non-utopian world, so-called therapies include things like "radical acceptance", "positive psychology", "no pain, no gain" mentality, changing expectations, comparing your own situation to worse situations, and a whole lot more. The main point with these therapies is that it is your fault that you perceive any negative thing. It never wants you to think that the perhaps the world itself is inherently of a negative position, and that of all the possible worlds, this one is on the lower mediocre one at best (if that can even be qualified). If we were to see the structural flaws, we would have more despair, less enthusiasm for birth, and a general turning away from this world. The powers-that-be would not want this.

Perhaps with this conclusion of a lower mediocre world, we can take the view of Philosophical Pessimism. That is to say, the world isn't that great (despite romantic odes of fervor and praise trying to convince otherwise), and that we should not put more people into it. We can form pessimist communities where we can all recognize this reality for what it is, and not try to pollannaize it, overlook it, ignore it, etc. We can look at it dead on and give the appropriate assessment of it. These communities can bring people together in this understanding.
Becky June 07, 2020 at 19:15 #421348
God! You guys are so wordy! Does that make you better? Or more knowledgeable? You think I’m a pessimist because I can’t wait to die? I dispute that Assumption. Anybody that knows me personally state I am one of the happiest people they have ever met.
schopenhauer1 June 07, 2020 at 19:22 #421352
Quoting Becky
God! You guys are so wordy! Does that make you better? Or more knowledgeable? You think I’m a pessimist because I can’t wait to die? I dispute that Assumption. Anybody that knows me personally state I am one of the happiest people they have ever met.


You can be a happy-go-lucky pessimist. Pessimism is not depression or a mood state. Rather, Philosophical Pessimism, is generally a negative assessment about the structures of existence and human nature. Mainly, it is asking: "Is there an inherent and necessary suffering to being born"?

I was not assuming anything about you, just providing a response to your question.

Becky June 07, 2020 at 19:25 #421354
“Suffering to be born” Again disagree with that statement. We are chemical beings Your statement that we are suffering to be born makes it religious. Math and physics are true religion is a fairytale
schopenhauer1 June 07, 2020 at 19:29 #421355
Quoting Becky
“Suffering to be born” Again disagree with that statement. We are chemical beings Your statement that we are suffering to be born makes it religious. Math and physics are true religion is a fairytale


First off, do you know how to use the quoting function? You can click and drag over the words and then let go. You will see a "quote" button. Click that, and you have quoted someone's post.

Anyways, you are making a category error. The fact that math, physics, and chemistry describes the physical processes that make our experiential states, that is a non-sequitor as to the human experiences life itself qua human experience.
Becky June 07, 2020 at 19:34 #421356
Yes, you are correct I did not know about the coding parameters. But do I care,;NO. And I disagree with your assumption that physics,chemistry are a non-sequitur. Physics, and chemistry are the base of our existence. If you don’t understand that you understand nothing
schopenhauer1 June 07, 2020 at 19:40 #421360
Quoting Becky
Yes, you are correct I did not know about the coding parameters. But do I care,;NO.


I don't care either, but if you don't quote, it potentially means your post is overlooked as quoting will allow the other person to see that someone has responded to them. There will be a small notification that appears when someone is quoted. You may not care if someone sees your response, and again, doesn't matter to me what functions you use or not, just trying to be helpful.

Quoting Becky
Physics, and chemistry are the base of our existence. If you don’t understand that you understand nothing


This is an interesting philosophical claim. Physics and chemistry are sciences that explain observations. That is not the "thing-itself". Rather it is an epistemological methodology for explanation. What the nature of existence is, is a metaphysical claim, that is not the realm of science itself. What you mean to say, I think, is that you take a physicalist metaphysical position of the world. However, a physicalist metaphysical position entails no assessment or evaluation for how humans can respond to the world. That is why it is one reason why it is a category error. You have not provided the steps to justify why a physicalist position entails anything regarding how humans experience the world.
InPitzotl June 07, 2020 at 20:15 #421366
Quoting schopenhauer1
Physics and chemistry are sciences that explain observations. That is not the "thing-itself".

That does not follow; if "thing-itself" can refer to the thing-itself, so can "water" and so can "H2O". H2O may be theory laden, but it can still be used to refer to the thing-itself.
wanderingmind June 07, 2020 at 20:41 #421372
Life is a vast sandbox rgp with an infinite 'world map'
Your whole life is spent gaining experience points, completing challenges and trying to get as close to 100% completion, realising 100% is impossible because of certainly in-game one off choices and therefore must decide what the closet to 100% completion is to you this time you play. There are Easter eggs, bonus levels that both affect the outcome of the game and those that don't, and ultimately at the end of the game you die, and all this points are lost.
Maybe you respawn in a way that some level of attainment is important, maybe its a one time around map, but either it doesn't matter, cos the new game isn't based on any of your 'save points', a new character would play the same game a new way from an infinite amount of start points, story arcs etc...
This means life it pointless, yet this pointlessness is the point, the aim of the game is only to play the game, you decide right and wrong, sometimes a group can agree on these ideas and thus create groups and scoieites and civilisations, but it all boils down to each person in that group choosing that similar path for their game.
I am not referencing some kind of destiny here, just the acceptance that sometimes one can create a isolated 'fate' where one keystone choice will inevitably lead to an outcome unless certain other choices are made.
(I am also not talking literally, as in I am not referring to this dea that we live in a (or somebody's?) simulation, that is a different idea, my sandbox rpg is metaphorical.)
wanderingmind June 07, 2020 at 20:43 #421373
I also realised that I never really answered the original post...
If I am right, then you already live, and that is the reason, to 'play' your 'character arc' until it is concluded, and also trying to 'complete' the 'game'.
schopenhauer1 June 07, 2020 at 21:02 #421382
Reply to InPitzotl
Im not talking about how how names refer to their referents in the world but rather the specific statement that math and science are the world. That is not a metaphysical position. It is using an epistemological statement for a metaphysical position. Further, my actual point is that even that metaphysical position doesnt tell us much about the himan experience itself other than claiming perhaps a statement about the constituents that make up people and the world
Becky June 07, 2020 at 21:04 #421385
You state “ However, a physicalist metaphysical position entails no assessment or evaluation for how humans can respond to the world”. Which again, is incorrect, we are chemical beings we we interact with our environment. Which is by definition means we interact physical/metaphysical.Because we’re human doesn’t make us any better than physical beings.
InPitzotl June 07, 2020 at 22:17 #421413
Quoting schopenhauer1
Im not talking about how how names refer to their referents in the world but rather the specific statement that math and science are the world.

I realize you're scratching a metaphysical itch, but I'm scratching a semantic itch, and I posit that you have to cross my playground before you reach yours. For example, what does it mean to say that math and science are the world?
Quoting schopenhauer1
That is not a metaphysical position.

I agree, but I think we have a bigger issue. You present that chemistry not being a metaphysical position is a problem with the claim that we're just chemistry. But I think chemistry not being a metaphysical position is a problem with your objection to the claim that we're just chemistry. Water is H2O; two parts of something we call hydrogen and one part something we call oxygen. Hydrogen has one proton in it, oxygen eight. Protons are made up of two up quarks and one down quark bound by gluons. And a quark is, maybe, a primitive classical unit. Or maybe, a portion of the universal wavefunction. Or maybe, a mode of vibration of strings. Or maybe, a particular equivalence class of features of the simulation we're in. Or maybe some combination of these things, or maybe none of them. All of these things have possibly distinct metaphysical implications.

But I submit it doesn't matter. Whatever quarks are, that the stuff coming out of my faucets is H2O is just a model saying such things as that I can run a DC current through it, and get two parts of something I call hydrogen and one part of something I call oxygen. So who really cares what the metaphysics is? That's irrelevant. What's relevant is simply whether that model is apt.
Quoting schopenhauer1
Further, my actual point is that even that metaphysical position doesnt tell us much about the himan experience itself other than claiming perhaps a statement about the constituents that make up people and the world

But with respect to the claim that we're chemistry, it's irrelevant what the metaphysics are. It's quite simply the wrong conversation to be had. What's relevant is simply whether the physics is apt to cover it.

ETA: Just to remain close to the topic I'll toss my view in. Life is quite simply an opportunity. Beyond that I don't think there's much to say; what it's an opportunity for is open ended, and whether that's a sufficient reason is open ended (and as some have said, it's not even necessary to have a "reason" to live to live). I would only hope that people find something to do with that opportunity and enjoy it if they can.
schopenhauer1 June 07, 2020 at 23:16 #421436
Quoting InPitzotl
But I submit it doesn't matter. Whatever quarks are, that the stuff coming out of my faucets is H2O is just a model saying such things as that I can run a DC current through it, and get two parts of something I call hydrogen and one part of something I call oxygen. So who really cares what the metaphysics is? That's irrelevant. What's relevant is simply whether that model is apt.


I don't know, that's a pragmatic claim, which itself is a metaphysical claim. What works, is what is the case. Okay, if you say so I guess? But it looks like you are making an epistemological claim, which I would agree would help a species built on surviving on empirical patterns. That matters though, only if you feel life itself matters, and that seems to be the question at hand.

Quoting InPitzotl
But with respect to the claim that we're chemistry, it's irrelevant what the metaphysics are. It's quite simply the wrong conversation to be had. What's relevant is simply whether the physics is apt to cover it.


But that isn't the actual question at hand which is nothing to do with the physics, but what we should do as humans in the world.

Quoting InPitzotl
ETA: Just to remain close to the topic I'll toss my view in. Life is quite simply an opportunity. Beyond that I don't think there's much to say; what it's an opportunity for is open ended, and whether that's a sufficient reason is open ended (and as some have said, it's not even necessary to have a "reason" to live to live). I would only hope that people find something to do with that opportunity and enjoy it if they can.


I mean we do live until we don't, but this isn't much of a statement. So dear sir, why should humans keep living, keep continuing, keep procreating? This itself has nothing to do with whether we can harness DC energy or not.
Nuke June 07, 2020 at 23:19 #421437
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
From my research, most philosophers, most notably Socrates, conclude that death is not inherently bad, but also that life is worth living; These two premises are contradictory in my opinion.


Why can't both be good?
Nuke June 07, 2020 at 23:22 #421438
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
Once one is dead, one is indifferent to such event, and indifferent to the life from which was lived


How do you know this?
Nuke June 07, 2020 at 23:29 #421440
Quoting Becky
You guys are so wordy!


Ha, ha! Guys=Wordy. True that! :-)
Kasper June 07, 2020 at 23:45 #421443
I have thought of something similar.
Funny thing is, and this is purely from my own experience of the topic.

When I wanted to kill myself, I could not find a reason to live.
when I was not able to pull through and do it, and had to accept that death was not a option, I then found reason to live. I realised that it is a selfish act to do suicide, it is not fair if you have a family, parents, siblings, that you are an uncle, if you have friends etc.
because what you put them through by doing suicide is a selfish act.
But I did not see it in that way before after the state in which I wanted to not live.

I was thinking of a selfish reason to kill myself but found reason why not kill myself which happened to be a non-selfish reason.

So for what you ask and what I conclude from my experience, I see it as, there is no one single, one true answer to you're question.

This quote from the play Hamlet,“To be, or not to be? That is the question—Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer The slings and arrows of outrageous fortune, Or to take arms against a sea of troubles, And, by opposing, end them?” The idea of whether is it better to live or to die.

And to answer the hamlet quote in which the question is, is it better to or not.
It is better to die because you will not suffer.
but it is better to live because then you will not be dead.

/(In advance, I am sorry for bad grammatical writing. and also I am brand new on the site, and firstly did not want to comment, I just wanted to read through topics and answers, but since this was something I have had a real life experience on. I took the liberty to share my view. Even that it is inconclusive :D)
InPitzotl June 07, 2020 at 23:45 #421445
Quoting schopenhauer1
That matters though, only if you feel life itself matters, and that seems to be the question at hand.

Quoting schopenhauer1
So dear sir, why should humans keep living, keep continuing, keep procreating? This itself has nothing to do with whether we can harness DC energy or not.

You're still walking through my playground. What does it mean to say humans should keep living, keep continuing, and keep procreating for reason X? What does it mean for life to matter? How does metaphysics help you answer that?

I offered that life is an opportunity; open ended. If you have something you care about, you can devote your life to it, and that's a reason to live. What is your objection? And how does metaphysics help support your objection?
schopenhauer1 June 08, 2020 at 00:00 #421451
Quoting InPitzotl
You're still walking through my playground. What does it mean to say humans should keep living, keep continuing, and keep procreating for reason X? What does it mean for life to matter? How does metaphysics help you answer that?


Metaphysics might not, though someone like Schopenhauer has some interesting answers using a metaphysical starting point.

Quoting InPitzotl
I offered that life is an opportunity; open ended. If you have something you care about, you can devote your life to it, and that's a reason to live. What is your objection? And how does metaphysics help support your objection?


You can see it sort of in my first response.
InPitzotl June 08, 2020 at 00:26 #421456
Quoting schopenhauer1
You can see it sort of in my first response.

I see this in your first response; I'll label them:
Quoting schopenhauer1
(A) That matters though, only if you feel life itself matters, and that seems to be the question at hand.

Quoting schopenhauer1
(B) but what we should do as humans in the world.

Quoting schopenhauer1
(C) why should humans keep living, keep continuing, keep procreating?

(A) is a value-judgment; I offer that it has no meaning for a reason to continue living unless it has meaning to the subject under consideration. What is your objection?
(B) is just a generic prescriptive question; (C) is a bit more particular. So considering (C), I offer again that life is just an opportunity, open ended. You should keep on living if there's something about life that you value. Same thing about continuing, and procreating. Both, however, may be challenged and weighed against reasons against the same. So I ask again, what is your objection?
schopenhauer1 June 08, 2020 at 00:38 #421459
Reply to InPitzotl
Actually, I meant the first response to this whole thread, sorry if I wasn't as specific, so it was before that post.

Quoting InPitzotl
(A) is a value-judgment; I offer that it has no meaning for a reason to continue living unless it has meaning to the subject under consideration. What is your objection?


I don't have one. I was just saying that the fact that we can harness DC electricity isn't a reason for humans to live by itself.

Quoting InPitzotl
(B) is just a generic prescriptive question;


Correct. Something that the statement "the world is made up of chemistry" doesn't really get at, which was my point of the statement.

Quoting InPitzotl
(C), I offer again that life is just an opportunity, open ended. You should keep on living if there's something about life that you value. So I ask again, what is your objection?


I guess my main evaluation is in regards to suffering. This is not a utopia. Is the world worth bringing more people into if it isn't a utopia? I concluded that it is not. A mediocre world (one that is at least not a utopia) is not worth bringing more people into in the first place. However, I can see not committing suicide once born because of the fear of pain and the unknown, and being attached to projects already in place once born. However, I do take Schopenhauer's (and Buddhist for that matter) ideas seriously that there is a basic lack in the humane experience. This I call inherent or "necessary" suffering (it doesn't go away, it's always there in the background). On top of this, it is self-evident that there is also myriads of ways to contingently suffer. Contingent suffering is suffering that is circumstantial to each person's circumstance (not necessary) but nonetheless still pervasive in almost all human lives (e.g. physical pain, mental anguish, frustrations, disappointments, tedium, etc.). I also see the idea of the absurd (often discussed in existential literature). That to me, is the repetitious nature of living that one sees if one reflects too long (the world turns, we basically have to do the same things over and over). To get a better understanding, see my first response.

My basic objection to Becky was her (his?) objection to my response by saying "the world is chemistry and physics" and therefore X evaluation of the world.
InPitzotl June 08, 2020 at 00:46 #421460
Quoting schopenhauer1
I don't have one. I was just saying that the fact that we can harness DC electricity isn't a reason for humans to live by itself.

Quoting schopenhauer1
Something that the statement "the world is made up of chemistry" doesn't really get at,

Quoting schopenhauer1
My basic objection to Becky was her (his?) objection to my response by saying "the world is chemistry and physics" and therefore X evaluation of the world.

Okay, I think we're talking past each other then, because I was just saying addressing the metaphysics is the wrong conversation. I see @Becky's quoted claim as off myself (as far as the description goes, because energy isn't a type of thing, but rather a metric for a property; that's always a property of something physical, and we "aren't" and can't "become" energy), unless possibly it's a metaphor I don't quite get.

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schopenhauer1 June 08, 2020 at 00:49 #421462
Quoting InPitzotl
Okay, I think we're talking past each other then, because I was just saying addressing the metaphysics is the wrong conversation. I see Becky's quoted claim as off myself (as far as the description goes, because energy isn't a type of thing, but rather a metric for a property; that's always a property of something physical, and we "aren't" and can't "become" energy), unless it's possibly a metaphor I don't quite get.


Yeah, I'm just trying to say that whatever she was trying to say, it didn't seem to be fleshed out as to how the world being "chemistry and physics" means something evaluative about the human experience.

I was also noting that "chemistry and physics" is an epistemological methodology, and not a metaphysical claim in itself, unless explained as such. Does Becky mean scientific naturalism? Does Becky mean physicalism? Could he/she be committing "scientisism"? It's hard to tell just from the statements. It was more a prompt to explain the position more fully. It could go in many directions, but I see Becky didn't really address the issues much further.
_db June 08, 2020 at 01:01 #421465
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
I would like to develop a previous point: Life cannot be both worth living and acceptable in ending. One of these premeses has to be false


This is a non-sequitur. A life may be worth living at some point, but turn sour later on. Furthermore, a life can be worth living without its end being a bad thing. Indeed someone whose life is well-lived seems to me to be someone who is not overly-concerned with keeping it around. They do not fear death but neither see any reason to bring it about.

Life is of so little importance that to ponder suicide is somewhat absurd. You spend so much energy to bring about the end of something that will end on its own anyway. Certainly it is understandable if you are experiencing a great deal of pain, but otherwise what's the big hurry?

But this only pertains to a life that already exists. If we are instead talking about life in the sense of the entirely of one's journey between birth and death, then the question is not so much is life worth living (aka is life worth finishing) but rather: is life worth starting. These are two very different questions.

A life can be worth finishing, even if it was not worth starting.
Becky June 20, 2020 at 09:33 #425541
Chemistry and physics are. You tweak that basic reality by calling it different things. naturalism, physicalism, scientisism are all semantics. Math doesn’t lie, people twist it. E= mc2. I can’t wait. Why be afraid?
180 Proof June 20, 2020 at 11:56 #425584
christian2017 June 20, 2020 at 12:09 #425589
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
I know that this may sound pretentious or unnecessarily "edgy" but I am genuinely trying to enquire about a difficult and unfalsifiable subsection of metaphysics: death and the value of life. From my research, most philosophers, most notably Socrates, conclude that death is not inherently bad, but also that life is worth living; These two premises are contradictory in my opinion. If something (life) is worth keeping, then surely the removal of said thing is inherently negative, no? In conclusion, I do not believe that anyone can provide a reason for me not to end my life tomorrow (hypothetically, I'm not suicidal by any means), other than "because you may aswell live". In my personal opinion the length of one's life is not a factor when determining whether the ending of it was negative or not. Once one is dead, one is indifferent to such event, and indifferent to the life from which was lived, therefore length and memory are invalid to the state of non-existence, as death and not having been born are an identical state in my opinion.

I am incredibly curious as to how much more intelligent people answer the question provided by the title of the thread. I'm new to this forum so I hope that this is to standard and isn't removed.

This was originally a Question but I have changed the category to debate, because I do not believe that I am able to mark a comment as having answered the question, as it is incredibly subjective.

I would like to develop a previous point: Life cannot be both worth living and acceptable in ending. One of these premeses has to be false, either life is not worth living (and therefore there is no reason not to end it) or death is inherently bad (and therefore should be feared). This presents an interesting dilemma as neither outcome is particularly desirable in my opinion: either fear death or kill yourself.


#Shark_Fighter_Nation is the political party i belong too.

This includes skydiving, shark fighting, fighting a rattle snake with a pair of garden shears, moving to Chicago, moving to Iran, fighting a bobcat, fighting a bear, fighting an aligator

Suicide is never in any circumstance or after any set of bad choices the right answer. Suicide is never the right answer.
180 Proof June 20, 2020 at 12:18 #425593
Quoting christian2017
Suicide is never the right answer.

Suicide is, however, always the first question (Camus).

:death: :flower:
christian2017 June 20, 2020 at 12:29 #425601
Reply to 180 Proof

It seems you suffer from depression. Sorry to hear that. I wish you the best.

TheMadFool June 20, 2020 at 12:55 #425608
The question, "can you provide a reason to live?" suggests a condition that's the exact opposite of the actual state of affairs, one in which, ceteris paribus, most people don't wish to die. I say this because to not want to die points to having a reason to live. Perhaps this line of reasoning is flawed because people may actually lack reasons to live but find death or nonexistence painful, something with the same net effect of not wanting to die.

So, supposing there are no positive reasons to want to live, at least there's the negative one of death being just too painful to experience.

It's not that Jane married John instead of Jones because she loves John but because she hates Jones. :chin:
Olivier5 June 22, 2020 at 10:27 #426261
Quoting JacobPhilosophy
Life cannot be both worth living and acceptable in ending.

It can worth living at a certain age or time, and worth ending at another, either because one is past one's prime and doesn't enjoy it anymore, or because the circumstances have changed.
180 Proof June 22, 2020 at 11:29 #426270
Quoting christian2017
?180 Proof

It seems you suffer from depression. Sorry to hear that. I wish you the best.

So, for you, is "seeming" believing? Whatever. I "suffer" from cheerful pessimism (i.e. prepared for things to get worse and usually quite amused that they haven't yet) instead.

:death: :flower:
Harry Hindu June 22, 2020 at 14:26 #426302
JacobPhilosophy:Can one provide a reason to live?

My reason is simple. I want to see what happens tomorrow.
christian2017 June 22, 2020 at 22:43 #426451
Reply to 180 Proof seems & believing are both on the same spectrum. Believing and gambling are essentially the same thing.

self doubt = success but we should try to avoid self doubt as much as possible. Success isn't all that important. We should always forgive ourselves and Suicide is never the answer.
JacobPhilosophy July 15, 2020 at 18:11 #434706
Reply to Harry Hindu This is the best response in the thread.
Edgy Roy August 07, 2020 at 01:37 #440638
I am 67 and I am perfectly amenable to the prospect of death. God or No God, at least I'll determine the Truth or I won't know anything. But I am not in a hurry to throw away the thing that is of greatest value for all living things. Time. You may not believe it now but you will change and change again and with those changes will come a new and different set of values. Perspectives that will delight and revile you and delight you again. When you get out in the World you will learn more about the Truth in the World than you ever dreamed of in college. You have a sack full of diamonds in your possession right now. They may be uncut now but they will shine sooner that you think. . But do you really want to throw all that value away without enjoying any of it?

Live Long and Prosper.
avalon August 07, 2020 at 02:08 #440646
Reply to JacobPhilosophy Quoting JacobPhilosophy
I would like to develop a previous point: Life cannot be both worth living and acceptable in ending. One of these premeses has to be false, either life is not worth living (and therefore there is no reason not to end it) or death is inherently bad (and therefore should be feared). This presents an interesting dilemma as neither outcome is particularly desirable in my opinion: either fear death or kill yourself.


Death is “acceptable” to us due to its inevitability. If we truly had a choice about it, we could debate the merit of existing forever vs ending one’s life. The question is whether life is worth living in spite of death. I’d argue that death’s inevitability and permanence makes life’s worth living, even if to simply see what’s next.
Augustusea August 07, 2020 at 21:33 #440898
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conclude that death is not inherently bad, but also that life is worth living; These two premises are contradictory in my opinion. If something (life) is worth keeping, then surely the removal of said thing is inherently negative

Isn't this a false dilemma you're committing here?
for example life ought to be lived is a good statement, but that doesn't necessarily entail death being a bad state, there is nothing to entail so,

but as for my opinion, I believe the "a person ought to live but death isn't bad" statement comes from a place of both the wille zum leben and the rational mind, since there is nothing that inherently makes living an ought except the irrational force of the wille zum leben in my belief.
John Onestrand August 08, 2020 at 02:54 #440993
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You wont die. You will only live. You can't experience death much like you can't see beyond your visual field.
So for you, death wont come, but I think you agree.

You don't need a reason to live, you need a reason to end it.
A rational reason to end your life is when your total estimated suffering outweighs your total estimated enjoyment.

Life has no purpose whatsoever, it's just an expression of the natural laws.
But if you think life is pointless, let's turn to Death - the Grandmaster of Utterly Pointlessness.

Life is something, death is not.
Khalid March 13, 2021 at 00:16 #509569
Religion has a lot to say here. As a Muslim i believe that i have been created by God for the Purpose of worshipping Him. Worshipping is not only Praying and giving alms. Living your life with a purpose of glorifying God and enjoying your life in His name is a kind of worship to God
T2-37K April 26, 2021 at 10:30 #527617
We all have plenty of reasons to live, the problem is the reason for that reason.
SpaceDweller April 26, 2021 at 18:21 #527857
A reason to live is to respect the fact that you were born in the first place.

The chance to be born is very small.
MondoR April 26, 2021 at 18:56 #527881
Reply to JacobPhilosophy The answer to your question lies in Spirituality, not philosophy. Yes, Life and Death are an endless cycle, just like Sleep and Awake. We move within these cycles to learn and rest, like a pendulum. We are time, and memory is what we are, what we have experienced, and what we are becoming. It is like the Light from a star. It never dies, just changes.