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Moral Superiority - Are you morally superior to someone else?

chatterbears January 02, 2019 at 22:41 11850 views 27 comments
Moral superiority is the belief or attitude that one's position and actions are justified by having higher moral values than others. Since I became vegan, many people have told me, "You think you're better than everybody else, sitting on your high horse."

The thing is, everybody has values in which they deem as higher than another person's values. I bet most of the people in this forum could confidently state that they are morally superior to a child rapist. Would I be correct in assuming that? If so, then it wouldn't be surprising for a vegan to feel morally superior to a non-vegan.

I am not comparing child rape to non-vegans, but I was trying to illustrate that we all make some value judgment on another person's actions. And we have an internal model of one's self, in which we feel morally superior to that person. I'd say I am also morally superior to a husband who cheats and/or beats his wife.

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DingoJones January 02, 2019 at 22:57 #242589
Reply to chatterbears

Well it depends on whether or not the person actually has a better moral system or not, which for me at least depends in whether or not it is rational and justified. If I had to guess, people tell you that because they dont think you are justified in your morality. People notice when other people are much more confident in their positions than they should be even if they cannot articulate exactly why. This is the high horse, FEELING you are morally superior when you are NOT. The measure of this depends on what peoples standards are for a moral or ethical
system.
Jake January 02, 2019 at 23:01 #242590
Quoting chatterbears
Moral superiority is the belief or attitude that one's position and actions are justified by having higher moral values than others.


Ok, seems a good definition. Now please make the argument as to why the comparison to what other people are believing or doing is important. Are you running for political office? Do you seek to join the priesthood?

Jake January 02, 2019 at 23:02 #242591
Quoting chatterbears
Since I became vegan...


If you care to share, when was that?
chatterbears January 02, 2019 at 23:10 #242599
Quoting DingoJones
People notice when other people are much more confident in their positions than they should be even if they cannot articulate exactly why. This is the high horse, FEELING you are morally superior when you are NOT.


Agreed, but it works the other way as well. Person A may assume Person B is on their high horse, when in fact Person B is justified in doing so. Person A may not fully understand a moral position, and therefore should abstain from judgement on Person B's character.
chatterbears January 02, 2019 at 23:12 #242600
Quoting Jake
Now please make the argument as to why the comparison to what other people are believing or doing is important. Are you running for political office? Do you seek to join the priesthood?


I don't really understand your question/point?
DingoJones January 02, 2019 at 23:42 #242613
Quoting chatterbears
Agreed, but it works the other way as well. Person A may assume Person B is on their high horse, when in fact Person B is justified in doing so. Person A may not fully understand a moral position, and therefore should abstain from judgement on Person B's character.


Yes, it depends on whether person is actually right or not and we tell that by the merits of how they reached thier conclusion.
chatterbears January 02, 2019 at 23:48 #242615
Quoting DingoJones
Yes, it depends on whether person is actually right or not and we tell that by the merits of how they reached thier conclusion.


Definitely agree here.
Terrapin Station January 03, 2019 at 01:19 #242632
Quoting chatterbears
The thing is, everybody has values in which they deem as higher than another person's values.


I don't agree with that. I don't accept a "higher"/"lower" paradigm or framework for morality.
Erebos January 03, 2019 at 03:09 #242650
Reply to DingoJones
But I think he’s saying it depends on perspective. And everyone has a point of view. Obviously some people are just plain wrong about things. But whose to say one persons view is more valid than another’s? As long as adeqequate thought is put into it I can see fair points from both sides of an argument usually. When I make a decision I try to look at things from several angles. And Try to remain objective. It’s arguably impossible since life is subjective for each person and we are creatures that suffer emotions and wants. Still the bigger picture must be considered and the consequences of your actions thought about. The world is the way it is for a reason. Imagine we achieved world peace in a day. Literally overnight...Would that break the world economy? If we stopped knowing how to wage war would that weaken us as a species in the longrun?
Erebos January 03, 2019 at 03:10 #242651
Reply to chatterbears I agree with that completely
Jake January 03, 2019 at 09:15 #242693
Quoting chatterbears
I don't really understand your question/point?


Managing one's personal morality does seem important.

Why does a comparison to someone else matter?
TheMadFool January 03, 2019 at 09:26 #242697
Reply to chatterbears For me, moral "superiority'' entails the existence of choice. If one has no option but to be moral then morality has no meaning.

A man or woman who is in a situation that requires him/her to be good isn't moral at all. Reminds me of myself.

However, if a powerful person who can do as s/he wishes but chooses to be good then s/he is superior in a moral context.

Free will? Determinism? Pending issues...

Also, morality is about sacrificing your self - your ego - for the benefit of others. So, moral ''superiority'' is an oxymoron in that to describe being good as ''superior'' you've simply retraced your steps to square one on the chessboard of ethics.
Tzeentch January 03, 2019 at 10:04 #242702
Feelings of moral superiority serve no other purpose besides inflation of the ego. Are such feelings common? Undoubtedly. But they are also highly dangerous, both when cultivated in individuals and in communities.

Quoting chatterbears
I'd say I am also morally superior to a husband who cheats and/or beats his wife.


This is where the mistake lies: This illusion of moral superiority stems from one instance, in which one attests that under the same circumstances one would have made a different decision.

Firstly, unless one has been in the same situation, one cannot be sure of this. How many people judge themselves to be morally superior to Nazi concentration camp guards? However, we also know that it is very likely that the average person would, under such circumstances, act in much the same manner.

Secondly, it is a mistake to judge the merit of a person on one example. Feeling morally superior to another means one has the illusion of being able to judge the entirety of another's moral being, and the entirety of one's own moral being, compare the two, and conclude one is superior.

Now, either of these could very well be true, but it is often very difficult, if not impossible, to find out. However, even if one were to gain, by some miracle, an accurate insight of one's own moral being compared to another, what is the use of blemishing this achievement with feelings of moral superiority? Why can one not congratulate oneself for being on the right path, and pity the poor fool who isn't?
Jake January 03, 2019 at 10:07 #242703
Reply to Tzeentch Very well said, I cast my vote for your post.
ernestm January 03, 2019 at 10:45 #242709
Quoting Tzeentch
How many people judge themselves to be morally superior to Nazi concentration camp guards?


You got the question right. This is a particularly appropriate day to consider it. In the USA, the democrats are splitting up after they had a majority in the house for less than a day. Trump is using federal funds to keep trump towers open during the federal shutdown. And in Britain, they are talking about 'no deal brexit' now. Both the USA and Britain continue to believe themselves morally superior to germany. Yet somehow, even after being split in two, germany is now more unified and a greater world power than ever.
andrewk January 03, 2019 at 10:54 #242711
Quoting chatterbears
I was trying to illustrate that we all make some value judgment on another person's actions.

I suspect that may be correct. But judging actions is not the same as judging a person. I don't think we all go on to judge other people and think ourselves superior or inferior.

I look at some actions of other people, and those include eating meat, and think that I hope I would not do such a thing because I consider it wrong. I look at the actions of different other people and think how good they seem to me - much better than I feel I could bring myself to do.

But that doesn't mean I condemn the first person, or worship the second. Nobody is perfect, and even people's notions of 'perfect' vary. Nor is anybody completely flawed.
ernestm January 03, 2019 at 11:03 #242712
Quoting andrewk
don't think we all go on to judge other people and think ourselves superior or inferior.


true. But the people who are capable of exercising restraint in this vanity are a remarkably tiny fragment of the species.
Terrapin Station January 03, 2019 at 11:58 #242716
Reply to ernestm

For me it's just a matter of acknowledging what morality really is--and what superior/inferior judgments really are. Both are simply types of preferences that people have. We could say that I prefer my preferences, obviously, but that's rather redundant.
Mayor of Simpleton January 03, 2019 at 12:05 #242718
Are you morally superior to someone else?

No.

Now for a different question regarding you.

Quoting chatterbears
Since I became vegan, many people have told me, "You think you're better than everybody else, sitting on your high horse."


Why are they telling you this?

Are you tossing it in their face as if it has some sort of universal moral superior value?
Are they simply assuming that anyone who claims to be "vegan" has a self-assuming moral superiority?
Are there other impication and hasty generalizations at work?

Honestly I have far too little context to field any conclusive position.

All I can do is field even more question and vague observations founded up the limited content of the OP.

So for what it's worth...

Quoting chatterbears
The thing is, everybody has values in which they deem as higher than another person's values


Odd, as that itself seems to be a rather bold assumption regarding the formation of values of other; thus it sort of appears to be a very judgemental statement. (it's less and indictment, but rather something that made me giggle a bit)

Anyway...

... is it possible to hold values that are not founded in a competition with the values of others... so to say, can one hold/create values without it being a reaction to/against the values of others?

Quoting chatterbears
I bet most of the people in this forum could confidently state that they are morally superior to a child rapist.


In what context and by who's standard of measure?

It seems that majorality here is being discussed as if it is a singular thing that can be measured by an unseen standard of measure; thus I could not answer the question with more context in respect to an established standard of measure being presented.

Quoting chatterbears
If so, then it wouldn't be surprising for a vegan to feel morally superior to a non-vegan.


Non-sequitur/equivocation alert?

How exactly would the general moral value of a member of this Forum as measured by a nondisclosed standard of measure as compared to the general moral value of a child rapist as measured by a subsequent undisclosed standard of measure serve as an accurate equivocation relating to the issue of vegan vs. non-vegan?

Quoting chatterbears
I am not comparing child rape to non-vegans, but I was trying to illustrate that we all make some value judgment on another person's actions.


Well... as a future suggestion don't write it out that way, as it reads as an "appeal to emotions" (appeal to the children) and directly implies what you claim not to be implicating; thus it might shed some light on why the "many people" have stated Quoting chatterbears
"You think you're better than everybody else, sitting on your high horse."
.

Indeed, perhaps a more accurate and less emotionally charged/extreme illustration might not be as off putting when approaching this issue from the get go?

It's just a thought... ;)

Quoting chatterbears
And we have an internal model of one's self, in which we feel morally superior to that person. I'd say I am also morally superior to a husband who cheats and/or beats his wife.


Oh dear...

... here we go again.

Morally superior in what context and by what standard?
Also... now we have the implied equivocation of "non-vegan" with "a husband who cheats and/or beats his wife".

Sure it's not what you meant to imply, but it's what you have stated.

Déjà-vu?

I'm so sorry to be like this, but hey... isn't the real question why do many people say to me Quoting chatterbears
"You think you're better than everybody else, sitting on your high horse."


Meow!

G

btw... (the "meow" is a signature I have used for many years, so for those who don't know me it's just a habit of mine leftover from the previous forums... as then it served as a check for my dyselxia and not a cheeky provocation. :) )
















S January 03, 2019 at 12:34 #242720
Quoting TheMadFool
Also, morality is about sacrificing your self - your ego - for the benefit of others.


No, that's what altruism is about. Morality is much broader than altruism.
DiegoT January 03, 2019 at 13:21 #242726
Reply to chatterbears it depends on what you understand as morality. If you use moral as a synonym for ethical, then to be vegan doesn´t put you on a higher ground. This is so because Ethics is based on reason and empiricism; not on beliefs or cult books. You have values, and find out what behaviours promotes those values more than others in the real world and with real choices.

It so happens that veganism is not such rational framework, but a life-style that satisfies personal instincts and feelings, with religious taboos that promote community bonds and inner peace. What is lacking to call veganism an ethical behaviour, is the logical and scientific study of what is the best way to protect the values vegans have.

However, the taboo is supposed to make you feel superior morally; or purer. And part of a better group of people that recognize you as one of them. So it is natural if you feel superior, but it´s not real if morality has an ethical meaning. I´m not judging you or anything, only trying to answer your question as well as I can....
Not January 04, 2019 at 05:54 #242959
No. I usually feel worse than the next guy. I also have a keen sense that any of us could be bad....really bad.....given the right set of circumstances. I don't believe the retractions about the Milgram Experiment. I do believe people can be made to be bad. So I tread carefully with any scrap of goodness I have and feel quite lucky to have it.

I could get a brain tumour or go mad or get a serious head injury to make me violent or an illness I can't handle or the wrong med, etc....... The possibilities are endless.

I am good now. Yeah! But better than anyone? No.
Jake January 04, 2019 at 23:45 #243208
Quoting chatterbears
The thing is, everybody has values in which they deem as higher than another person's values. I bet most of the people in this forum could confidently state that they are morally superior to a child rapist. Would I be correct in assuming that? If so, then it wouldn't be surprising for a vegan to feel morally superior to a non-vegan.


It's not surprising for NEW vegans to make that comparison, which is probably what's happening here. But such comparisons are completely unnecessary. In fact, most people do whatever they do for whatever reason that works for them, and aren't concerning themselves with a comparison to somebody else.


Txastopher January 05, 2019 at 10:10 #243278
If X is wrong, and you make a choice not to do X, then you gain some positive morality. However, in order to establish that veganism confers moral superiority, you would need to establish that non-veganism is wrong; something you have yet to do.

Even if it were the case that non-veganism is wrong, in terms of consumption, vegans could indeed be morally superior, but there is no reason to suppose that this morality carries over into any other areas of their ethical lives.

Quoting chatterbears
I'd say I am also morally superior to a husband who cheats and/or beats his wife.


Not, presumably, because you are a vegan, but because you don't cheat/beat?

I would argue, in your case Chatterbears, that any moral gains you make by your affirmed veganism are more than cancelled out by your ignoring and/or wilfully misunderstanding anyone who disagrees with you and that your conclusion that the resulting attrition of your interlocutors in the face of your mantra-like repetition amounts to some kind of philosophical victory.



Pelle January 06, 2019 at 20:48 #243794
Reply to chatterbears It only depends on if the central impact of the moral system is fundamentally neutral, negative or positive. I'd say the mere act of eating animal products is neutral, while being a child rapist is actively negative.

The neutral-positive relationship is inherently different to a neutral-negative relationship, in that the neutral actor can point out that they themselves don't do the negative acts that are carried out be the negative actor. A positive actor can't look at neutral actor in the same way though, because the neutral person can declare their voluntary choice and say that as long as their actions aren't directly negative, they are free to do whatever.

Subsequently, the positive actor has to proclaim the neutral actor as a negative one, in order to combat them intellectually, which leads to that moral grandstanding which you describe.
DiegoT January 06, 2019 at 21:21 #243809
Reply to Pelle It only depends on if the central impact of the moral system is fundamentally neutral, negative or positive. I'd say the mere act of eating animal products is neutral, while being a child rapist is actively negative. I think All acts are morally neutral, and they can be attributed an moral positive or negative charge when they actually happen, in a context.
Notice how your examples (eating animal products and child rape) differ in that the second is given a context. Because the general, context-free action is not to rape a child, but to have sex with a child. I think second generation anthropologists like Malinowsky wrote about cultures where adults were supposed to initiate the children sexually and the ritual practice was functional within their society and apparently not harmful at all for the kids and their self-esteem. The very same practices could be traumatic in our society for children in the same age.

My point is not to discuss the topic of sex with minors, but that you always need a precise context to assign moral qualities to an action. Eating animals is neutral; but if you give it a context it becomes good or bad. Eating endangered animals as they do in China today is bad, because they drive many species to extinction. Eating paella de conejo with your grandparents is morally good, because you are fulfilling your duties with your family.
Artemis January 08, 2019 at 18:59 #244292
Of course we all think our own opinions are right and others are wrong somehow. Otherwise we would have the other opinion.

"Superior" is the wrong word though, because a good philosopher maintains a decent amount of humilty, self-criticism, and willingness to proven wrong.