Forced to dumb it down all the time
If you speak too intelligently some people might not understand you. If you are given instructions, you explain in a simple way or one which most will understand. The other day I had a coworker get on my case for not being more literal. I was told I am suppose to use "correct terms" when speaking. This was a lead as well. Should I dumb it down, or should people be intelligent enough to figure things out?
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If you understand it and you explain it clearly and your interlocutor is sufficiently intelligent then he or she will understand you.
An example would help because this is a highly circumstantial topic. Depending on the context you maybe should or maybe shouldn't dumb it down.
I'm an engineer. Most of what I do is explain things. My audience usually includes other technical people, people who are familiar with technical issues but not technical themselves, and the public. There is a certain irreducible amount of technical language I have to use, but I don't usually have trouble making myself understood. It's true, the issues I'm explaining are not difficult to understand. I'm not a mathematician or physicist working on complicated issues. I'm a civil and environmental engineer cleaning up contaminated soil and groundwater.
Clarity and structure are what matters. Those and knowing your audience and what they have the capacity, education, and experience to understand.
Clarity can be difficult to achieve in an unplanned (ad lib) situation. It may not be anyone's fault.
Most newspapers were, at one time, written at a 6th-grade to 8th grade level. Newspapers need to be accessible to as many readers as possible (for revenue purposes) without making it so simple complicated issues can't be discussed. Leading national newspapers like the New York Times are likely to be pitched at a higher reading level (maybe 10th to 12th grade) than the West Cupcake Weekly Advertiser.
Your thread, "When You Sold Your Soul To The Devil" -- your OP, Hanover's response, and 1 paragraph of 0-9's quoted text from Oscar Wilde -- reads at the 8th grade level according to the Fry/Ragor readability formula.
Must be dumbing it down for us.
Yes, we are all intellectual superheros.
Don't be a hater. This was a great paper until Murdoch bought it.
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Do you realize how condescending that sounds? I'm sure the people you are trying to explain things to pick up on that.
Who's unfamiliar with that expression? ...
I have noticed that some people seem to lose the ability to interpret figurative language (like "This place is a ghost town"), metaphors, puns, similes, and so on as they age. Is it an early sign of dementia? I sometimes wonder.
There are also people who seem to have had all imaginative ability washed out of their brains, and anything that isn't obviously literal disturbs them.
Or maybe they just don't like you.
And once all the oxes had left the oxymorons, the oxymorons were moronically no longer self-contradictions.
I'm sure they're only trying to help you embiggen yourself.
YES!!!!
I agree with EVERYTHING you said AND I managed to read your whole response without my eyes glazing over in loss of understanding like just happened to me with T.Clark's post above. People just assume that you are on the same thinking level and learn the same as them and that can be very intimidating to even consider asking a question of. However your approach makes it clear that you understand people like me, people who feel and are fundamentally rooted in emotion. That approach sets my curiosity on fire and I am wanting to learn because it feels like we are learning it together....I am not sure that makes sense but it is a very emotional part of learning for me.
Having said that, my son who is in college is in such a high level math class that when he comes home and interacts with the family, he has a hard time converting back to basic math. I realize it sounds absurd but you can see him having to work at turning down his knowledge to entertain such simple math problems.
What a unique identity to adopt.
Quoting ArguingWAristotleTiff
So for instance you’re serving tea and ask, “one lump or two?” And he’s doing mathmatical simulations to determine the optimal quantity of sucrose to consume for the next hour?