Why am I the same person throughout my life?
Basically I need help. I know this sounds like a stupid question at first, but it really is hard to find a convincing reason so I hope somebody on this website can give me some good insight.
I would prefer not to rely on faith in the existence of a physical "soul" like described in many religions, and I would also like to believe that the world around me is to some extent real.
Firstly, I understand that there is no argument or relevance for continuation of brain matter/brain atoms as the atoms in a brain are constantly being replaced all the time, and I a don't see much significance in whether they are or not anyway.
I do accept that memory is important, but I have forgotten 99.9% of my memories and even the things that I do remember, I am not remembering in this very moment, if that makes sense.
I know I do feel like I'm the same person, but say that the many worlds interpretation of quantum mechanics is true, there will be an unimaginably huge amount of people who also think that they are me, does that mean all of them actually are? Does that mean that the woman who thinks she is a reincarnation of Marilyn Monroe actually is Marilyn Monroe?
Maybe the way I perceive the world is fundamentally different to the way other people see the world - as in maybe the way I see/interpret colours is different from the way other people see them, but I do not have evidence for this and even if it is true, would it really be sufficient?
I'm sorry if I was unclear at any point but this really has been bothering me a lot for almost a year and would help me a lot if somebody gave me a convincing argument
I would prefer not to rely on faith in the existence of a physical "soul" like described in many religions, and I would also like to believe that the world around me is to some extent real.
Firstly, I understand that there is no argument or relevance for continuation of brain matter/brain atoms as the atoms in a brain are constantly being replaced all the time, and I a don't see much significance in whether they are or not anyway.
I do accept that memory is important, but I have forgotten 99.9% of my memories and even the things that I do remember, I am not remembering in this very moment, if that makes sense.
I know I do feel like I'm the same person, but say that the many worlds interpretation of quantum mechanics is true, there will be an unimaginably huge amount of people who also think that they are me, does that mean all of them actually are? Does that mean that the woman who thinks she is a reincarnation of Marilyn Monroe actually is Marilyn Monroe?
Maybe the way I perceive the world is fundamentally different to the way other people see the world - as in maybe the way I see/interpret colours is different from the way other people see them, but I do not have evidence for this and even if it is true, would it really be sufficient?
I'm sorry if I was unclear at any point but this really has been bothering me a lot for almost a year and would help me a lot if somebody gave me a convincing argument
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When we ordinarily say that two things are the same, aren't we merely implying that we can substitute each for one another for some intended purpose?
Suppose we have no purpose for visually comparing two photographs. Is it even meaningful to ask ourselves "are they the same"? For what is the criterion of sameness here, and to what purpose is it being put to?
Perhaps in absence of any criteria of sameness, we might say they [I]look[/I] the same, but are we really expressing a truth regarding their appearance to us, or are we merely expressing our ambivalence towards them?
If we were expressing a truth of their appearance to ourselves, wouldn't we would have to be literally superimposing their images on top of each other in our imagination?
and even if we could do that, wouldn't we still need some external criteria of correctness to compare our judgement against? for otherwise we wouldn't be asserting anything and would merely be creating a private definition to ourselves for the meaning of "looking the same to me" which would assert nothing positive or negative to ourselves in an epistemological sense.
So if self-identity over time is a concept analogous to judging the appearance of photographs with no external criteria of correctness, it is a meaningless concept.
On the other hand, if one is asking whether one is [I]physically[/I] and [I]functionally[/I] the same over time, the answer depends on the scale we are employing for our criteria of sameness, which is normally chosen according to our intended purpose.
There are several factors.
1. You have not forgotten 99.9% of your memories. Most of your mental functions are non-conscious; your memories are alive and well in this department. When you need a memory, non-conscious brain operations will provide it to you. (((Or not. Things do get forgotten, and there is always that business of not remembering who somebody is that you "you know you know" but you can't think of their name. All that stuff is normal.)))
2. While it is the case, as Heraclitus said, that you never step into the same river twice, the world is pretty stable for all practical purposes. You are part of the world, and you too remain pretty stable. If you de-stableize too much, you will be declared dead. Since you are posting here, you are probably still alive. Just guessing.
3. Some of the atoms in your brain are coming and going in fairly heavy traffic because you seem to be still alive. But just because there is trafficking of atoms and molecules in your brain doesn't mean that everything in there is being chewed up and lost. Your body does get renewed completely several times during your lifetime (with a few exceptions, one being a lot of those neurons inside your skull), but the shape of the structure stays the same.
Quoting A disturbed person
Forget about the many worlds of quantum mechanics. It's speculative and it isn't going to make any difference, anyway. It's not your problem.
The woman who thinks she is a reincarnation of Marilyn Monroe may enjoy thinking she is, and as long as she isn't annoying everyone by constantly trying to sing "Diamonds Are A Girl's Best Friend" or obsessing about her affair with President Kennedy, she's probably harmless.
4. Who else would you be?
I bet that whatever you feel, there is a lot of continuity in it. That is, you aren't constantly feeling like you have become somebody else, or are losing the continuity of identity that you had several days ago. Ideas sometimes occur to us that just aren't that helpful, and we waste time thinking about it. Like the many worlds business. There may be other universes, but as far as we know, we aren't going there.
So relax. Or get busy -- whatever is on your list of things to do.
Whether or not you’re the same person you were at an earlier time depends on how you mean the question. As I mention below, I think most would agree with me that you’re the same person as you were yesterday or last week, but not the same person you were a long time ago, in a much earlier distinctly-different part of your life.
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There’s no “Soul”, “Mind” or “Consciousness” separate from the body. The animal (including humans) is unitary. We’re the person, the animal, full-stop.
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It’s real in the context of your life, and that’s real enough.
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Yes, and an animal, including humans, is a system. There’s a story about a ship, in which one piece of the ship at a time is replaced, until eventually, years later, every part of the ship has been replaced, and the question is, is it the same ship as it was before the replacement process started? Sure, if the ship is regarded as a system.
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“This hatchet belonged to George Washington. Oh sure, it’s had a few new heads, and a few new handles.”
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But whether you’re the same person that you were at an earlier time depends on how you mean that question.
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There’s also a meaningful sense in which you aren’t the same person you were a long time ago. It’s plain to me that I’m not the same person that I was as a child, or even as a teenager. Of course I remember some of my concerns and priorities in those days, but I don’t know or understand how I justified those, though I suspect where I might have gotten some of them. It’s as if I know a few things about that person, as one might know about another person. I don’t even know the person that I was then.
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So I wouldn’t expect a definite, all-applicable, answer to that question. It depends on how you mean it.
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I’d say that (as I mentioned above) most would probably agree that you’re the same person as you were yesterday or last week, but not the same person that you were in a much earlier and distinctly different period of your life.
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Yes, that’s like I was saying above.
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No. I disagree with the notion that someone can remember a past life. In fact, I claim that the matter of whether or not a person has lived a past life is completely indeterminate.
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I think a lot of people would agree with your impression of not being the same person you were a long time ago. I think you’re right.
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Michael Ossipoff
Who else could you be?
Your statement is true of long ropes made out of hemp fibers, for instance, or linen, cotton, silk, etc.
True. It still makes an excellent metaphorical answer. One does not need anything to be the same now as it was then, in order to be the same person now as you were then.
However, some say that change is a truth that can't be denied. By that token we, every ONE of us, are always changing - mentally and physically. The self, then, must be gently detached from the number ONE and then reassigned to the ever-changing self. I am ONE but we are MANY.
We need to be very careful here. As I said in my reply to the OP and I'm quoting the evil demon from the movie Ghost Rider, ''I am one but we are many''. It is (was?) my belief that the self is not ONE but MANY and your rope analogy dovetails perfectly with what I said.
However, I think we need to look deeper into what we mean by ''different'' or ''change'' vis-a-vis our shared belief that there is no ONE thread that runs the length of the entire rope.
Consider the mental illness multiple personality disorder (MPD). The diagnosis is made only when two personalities are sufficiently different. Small differences in personality are common - so-called mood swings I believe - and these don't warrant the diagnosis of MPD.
Taking this line of thought further we see that much of the change (mental and physical) we notice in a person are diluted by the presence of at least one continuous, to use your words, thread.
The threads in a rope overlap in such a way that continuity (in other words self-identity) is maintained throughout. Most of us aren't diagnosed with MPD are we? Should we be? Or is your reasoning faulty?
Perhaps it's not the individual threads that is the self. Rather the entire rope is.
One rope or two?
Depends on what you mean by ''rope''.
So, redefining ''self'' will solve the conundrum? I guess my POV does suggest such a route but I also mean that there IS continuity in the timeline of a person -that the discontinuity alluded to by your analogy is irrelevant. Small changes can be ignored.
Solve, or dissolve...
The point is that there need be nothing that ties you to who you once were.
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That speaks of some underlying objective i.e. wanting/hoping something to be the case, whatever that may be.
"All I know is that I know nothing" ?! :)
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You cannot step into the same river twice. In fact you can't step into the same rive once.
What you feel when you feel 'the same person' is continuity of an ever changing reality.
You are not the same person as you were when you were five years old. You are not the same person you were yesterday. You were not even the same person you were when you stated to read this post.
There is an "I", the Observer that is peering through the eyes and is learning, experimenting, creating, and evolving. This idea that we are some bouncing particles is a man-made myth and needs to be discarded in order to understand life. Actually, the Daoists had it right. The "I" resides in the center of the body and the brain along with the spine is more of a transmitter/receiver antenna.