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Is Stoicism a better guide to living than Christianity

Ross May 25, 2021 at 14:18 9000 views 55 comments
Christianity is the most popular religion and set of values in the world with 2 billion followers worldwide. Stoicism which was one of the most popular philosophies in the ancient world is today a small fringe movement, although a growing in popularity. It had a significant influence on Christianity and the most famous Christian philosopher Thomas Aquinas adopted many of the Ancient Greek virtues in his Philosophical writings , a blend of largely Aristotelian and Stoic thought. But he added his own purely Christian virtues to the list including faith, hope, love and charity. But these are then combined with the teachings in the gospels.
Cognitive behavior therapy , the most common form of psychotherapy today for emotional problems was actually inspired by Stoicism, and has swept the world in recent decades. So it would seem that modern psychotherapy has more in common with Stoicism than Christianity and yet the values that permeate western culture are largely based on Christianity even for those who don't believe in God. So I put the question for debate is Stoicism a better guide to living than Christianity and should it replace the latter as a set of values to live by?

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praxis May 25, 2021 at 14:53 #541764
Quoting Ross Campbell
... the values that permeate western culture are largely based on Christianity even for those who don't believe in God.


If true that would be a sufficient condemnation for me.

Quoting Ross Campbell
is Stoicism a better guide to living than Christianity and should it replace the latter as a set of values to live by?


Religion is for those who, for whatever reason, are not inclined towards self-actualization and religion could be rather superfluous for the self-actualized. The fundamental incompatibility is that stoicism relies on reason whereas religion relies on faith. The former leads to independence and the development of virtue and the latter to dependence and “the values that permeate western culture”.
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baker May 25, 2021 at 15:39 #541785
Reply to Ross Campbell Is Stoicism a better guide to living than Christianity?

For whom, in what circumstances?
Ciceronianus May 25, 2021 at 16:16 #541810
Quoting Ross Campbell
So I put the question for debate is Stoicism a better guide to living than Christianity and should it replace the latter as a set of values to live by?


It isn't clear to me that Christianity has ever been adopted as a guide to living by any significant number of people calling themselves Christians if the directives of Jesus as set forth in the New Testament constitue Christianity. Christians have hated, killed, and oppressed each other and non-Christians since it was founded, and avarice is more characteristic of Christians than charity.

The fact that what Jesus advocated is and has been largely ignored suggests to me it is not a usable guide for living. It would be nice if we all loved one another, but we never have and I suspect never will.

Stoicism presents a more useful guide regarding how to live, and has none of the theistic baggage true Christians must always carry. There's no requirement that we love one another in the Christian sense, but respect for each other and acknowledgement that we are part of a community is something achievable, as are efforts at controlling negative emotions, desires (for riches and fame and power, things indifferent) and fears. Great effort and discipline may be required, but it is no impossible task.

Apollodorus May 25, 2021 at 18:04 #541848
Quoting Ross Campbell
So it would seem that modern psychotherapy has more in common with Stoicism than Christianity and yet the values that permeate western culture are largely based on Christianity even for those who don't believe in God.


One objection to that statement is that since most people believe in God, there can be no harm following a system that believes in God, like Christianity.

Christianity does have a code of moral conduct for normal people. Psychotherapy is largely for people with psychological issues. That's why it's called therapy.

So, it depends on whether you want a spiritual and moral guide to living or a clinical therapy method.

baker May 27, 2021 at 08:41 #542748
Quoting Apollodorus
One objection to that statement is that since most people believe in God, there can be no harm following a system that believes in God, like Christianity.


There can be such harm, for those who don't already believe in God and Christianity. Said harm comes from trying to make oneself believe something that one simply has no inclination to believe. For such a person, harm also comes from trying to follow the Christian code; for such a person will seek to follow the code by the letter (they know no other way), instead of being selective the way Christians are. Meaning such a person will be naive and easy to exploit and get themselves into a lot of trouble due to trying to be honest and truthful at all times, turning the other cheek, loving their neighbor etc.
Tom Storm May 27, 2021 at 08:44 #542749
Quoting Ross Campbell
So I put the question for debate is Stoicism a better guide to living than Christianity and should it replace the latter as a set of values to live by?


You don't need either.
TheMadFool May 27, 2021 at 08:57 #542754
Stoicism strikes me as resignation to one's circumstances as encapsulated in its spirit of acceptance - to not grieve over one's misfortunes and not rejoice over one's fortunes. The idea behind stoicism seems to be to keep things the way they are and simply adapt yourself to them.

Christianity, on the other hand, despite its alleged links to stoicism, is about bringing about change - getting one's hands on a ticket to heaven seems to be what all Christians aim for. In other words, Christianity, though it seems to be fully aware of the "human condition, doesn't accept the status quo and wants change, change for the better, heaven being the goal.
baker May 27, 2021 at 09:05 #542756
Quoting TheMadFool
Stoicism strikes me as resignation to one's circumstances as encapsulated in its spirit of acceptance - to not grieve over one's misfortunes and not rejoice over one's fortunes. The idea behind stoicism seems to be to keep things the way they are and simply adapt yourself to them.

I think this is a modern rendition of stoicism. The original one had methapyhsical underpinnings which are unpalatable to many modern people, but which made all the difference and prevented stoicism from being merely a quetism.
TheMadFool May 27, 2021 at 09:55 #542763
Quoting baker
The original one had methapyhsical underpinnings


And they are...?
180 Proof May 27, 2021 at 11:36 #542792
baker May 27, 2021 at 11:53 #542801
Reply to TheMadFool
From Wiki:

The Stoic ethic espouses a deterministic perspective; in regard to those who lack Stoic virtue, Cleanthes once opined that the wicked man is "like a dog tied to a cart, and compelled to go wherever it goes".[11] A Stoic of virtue, by contrast, would amend his will to suit the world and remain, in the words of Epictetus, "sick and yet happy, in peril and yet happy, dying and yet happy, in exile and happy, in disgrace and happy",[12] thus positing a "completely autonomous" individual will, and at the same time a universe that is "a rigidly deterministic single whole".

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stoicism#:~:text=Stoicism%20is%20a%20school%20of,views%20on%20the%20natural%20world.


And then all that about being part of the world and so on. The Stoics were by no means advocating passivity in terms of action, as some modern usages of the term indicate.
TheMadFool May 27, 2021 at 12:04 #542807
Quoting baker
The Stoics were by no means advocating passivity in terms of action, as some modern usages of the term indicate.


Oh! If stoicism recommends acceptance of one's cricumstances, how would we explain such an attitude? It could be, other reasons being possible, that there's nothing we can do to change our condition. What are these "...other reasons possible..."?
baker May 27, 2021 at 12:07 #542810
Quoting TheMadFool
Oh! If stoicism recommends acceptance of one's cricumstances, how would we explain such an attitude? It could be, other reasons being possible, that there's nothing we can do to change our condition. What are these "...other reasons possible..."?


Can you imagine a military general, out on the battle field, who is a Stoic?
praxis May 27, 2021 at 15:06 #542873
Reply to baker

You believe that pantheism somehow prevents stoicism from being quietism?
Outlander May 27, 2021 at 15:35 #542884
Some theories or systems of belief that are inherently lacking or otherwise missing something another inherently has can often be implemented in a more effective or successful way as far as desired results and eventual outcome. Not always. One man's version, interpretation or best or "intended" approach to a philosophy, school of thought, or even if not especially a religion is not always the same as that of another. Doesn't have to mean anyone is more right or wrong, though certain dogmas or "prescribed information" are clearly defined.. though semantics and the use of literary devices often blur these lines and create vast amounts of space for debate of even the most absolute of statements.
180 Proof May 27, 2021 at 17:30 #542919
Quoting baker
Can you imagine a military general, out on the battle field, who is a Stoic?

Well, let's see ... other than the old adage (I can't source it at the moment) 'Epicurean during peace, Stoic during war', what do you make of these reputed 'Stoic warriors' ...

ancients:

Marcus Aurelius (emperor)
Scipio Africanus the Younger (general)
Augustus Caesar (emperor)
Cato the Younger (tribune / general)

moderns:

US Gen. William Tecumseh Sherman
US Adm. James Stockdale (POW)
US Gen. James "Mad Dog" Mattis

Ciceronianus May 27, 2021 at 17:45 #542922
Reply to 180 Proof
Also Lucius Flavius Arrianus, student of Epictetus (to whom we owe the Enchiridion and the Dialogues), governor of Cappadocia who defended his province in the field against the Alani.
180 Proof May 27, 2021 at 18:05 #542934
Reply to Ciceronianus the White :up: Yes, there's really too many to name, but the objection stands with less than ten names.
praxis May 27, 2021 at 18:32 #542943
Quoting 180 Proof
Marcus Aurelius (emperor)


Does standup too...

baker May 29, 2021 at 21:56 #543997
Quoting 180 Proof
Can you imagine a military general, out on the battle field, who is a Stoic?
— baker
Well, let's see ... other than the old adage (I can't source it at the moment) 'Epicurean during peace, Stoic during war', what do you make of these reputed 'Stoic warriors' ...

Thanks for illustrating my point! The modern day stoic is a passive-aggressive wimp, while there is nothing in the original Stoicism that would stand in the way of being proactive.


Quoting praxis
You believe that pantheism somehow preventsStoicism from being quietism?

Of course, because pantheism gives one a definitive sense that one is part of divinity, and that as such, one's life is worth living, that life is a big and worthy project worth striving for, all taking place in a big and worthy universe.

Major personal monotheisms operate from the notion of separation between man and god, and of the fallen nature of man. This gives rise to despondence, guilt, demoralization, hopelessly trying to (re)establish the bond between man and the divine. Pantheism doesn't throw a person into such an abyss, so the person has more energy and can utilize it proactively.
180 Proof May 29, 2021 at 22:02 #544003
Reply to baker Care to elaborate on how you got this "passive-aggressive wimp" from my 'stoic warriors' post?
Valentinus May 29, 2021 at 22:36 #544027
Reply to Ross Campbell
@Outlander makes a good point about how the emphasis in one argument does not connect easily with the emphasis in others. It is not like they share the gaps between them. We, as readers supply the gaps. I think comparisons need more specificity than comparing "schools of thought."

So it might be more engaging to compare Kierkegaard's Works of Love with Epictetus's Enchiridion. Or some other specific sets of instruction on doing what is best.


praxis May 29, 2021 at 23:42 #544058
Quoting baker
You believe that Pantheism somehow prevents Stoicism from being Quietism?
— praxis

Of course, because pantheism gives one a definitive sense that one is part of divinity, and that as such, one's life is worth living, that life is a big and worthy project worth striving for, all taking place in a big and worthy universe.


You haven’t shown how this prevents Quietism. Actually I might assume the Pantheist to have quietist tendencies, wanting to contemplate and commune with God at the expense of all worldly concerns.
baker May 30, 2021 at 14:16 #544287
Quoting praxis
Actually I might assume the Pantheist to have quietist tendencies, wanting to contemplate and commune with God at the expense of all worldly concerns.

No, there is no personal god to commune with in pantheism.
baker May 30, 2021 at 14:26 #544288
Quoting 180 Proof
Care to elaborate on how you got this "passive-aggressive wimp" from my 'stoic warriors' post?

*sigh*

I was trying to explain a point about S/stoicism to TheMadFool, in line with the discussion that far. So I asked him a question about a type of profession that probably most people nowadays do not associate with S/stoicism. I wanted to saliently make the point that being a military general (a characteristically proactive profession where there is a lot at stake) is not in conflict with being a Stoic. And then I wanted to elaborate why this is so, depending on how TMF would reply, addressing his further questions or concerns.

*sigh*
praxis May 30, 2021 at 14:59 #544304
Quoting baker
No, there is no personal god to commune with in pantheism.


Right, a God without personality. That being the case, communing with nature (or literally whatever) could be seen as communing with God. Doesn’t seems there’s any point to pantheism without experiencing the “sense that one is part of divinity”. I formally submit that the pantheist could become lost in this sensing and unwittingly become quietist. Stranger things have happened.
frank May 30, 2021 at 15:30 #544311
I don't think Christianity tells the average person how to live. It's for people who are so consumed by bitterness that they've become complete assholes. It's about freedom.
Fooloso4 May 30, 2021 at 18:58 #544380
Which is the better guide to living depends on the individual, her capacities, desires, and inclinations. Some people want be shown the way and would otherwise be lost. Others are motivated by inquiry and want to find their own way.
god must be atheist May 30, 2021 at 19:05 #544385
Reply to Fooloso4 I would not be so specific. I just finished firing off a letter (personal email) to a friend, who says she keeps herself grounded or level-headed by meditation. I replied that in my opinion Buddhism is just as faulty as a philosophy as Christianity is, but for some reason they work for people. Then I said I am an atheist and that works for me -- in conclusion, human beings are such, that everything works for them to maintain their mental-emotional balance. Stoicism is just one more thing on the pile that works, despite its best efforts.
god must be atheist May 30, 2021 at 19:19 #544390
Quoting praxis
Religion is for those who, for whatever reason, are not inclined towards self-actualization and religion could be rather superfluous for the self-actualized.


I first encountered the expression "self-actualization" when learning about Maslow's pyramid of needs. But at that time I thought it was a neologism with no meaning, it's just that Maslow needed to put the dot on the i, and say something that happened when someone got all his needs met. Fueling my suspicion, to my knowledge then (and actually now, too) M never explained in any detail what he meant by self-actualization. So M coined this phrase, I suspected, in order to finish the the thought process like every goal-oriented person does, and he carefully chose an expression that sounds meaningful while completely devoid of the same.

In the intervening 40 years I focussed every waking moment of my life to find an actual, should I say, actualized meaning to "self-actualization" but so far I failed.
praxis May 31, 2021 at 01:17 #544628
Reply to god must be atheist

I suspect the problem is that you’re a visual learner so I’ve taken the liberty to literally draw it out for you. Enjoy...

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god must be atheist May 31, 2021 at 05:34 #544688
Reply to praxis Thanks. It shows who can self-actualize but it does not show or explain what self-actualization means.
Tom Storm May 31, 2021 at 19:53 #544887
Reply to praxis When I see diagrams like this I have to ask: 1) Who determines what one's ideal self is? (I have no substantive sense of my ideal self)) and 2) Who determines what the extent of the overlap might be?

If self-actualization is a goal - what if your best self is as an efficient serial killer?
praxis May 31, 2021 at 21:07 #544930
Reply to god must be atheist

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Okay, let's try a different image. Think of reality as a giant puzzle and you represent one puzzle piece. There is only one place in the puzzle where you fit, despite whatever other people or you yourself think you fit. Self-actualization is fitting the place were you fit yourself. That sounds awkward because you only fit one place regardless of who does the fitting and the fact that you were never out of place. It is all an illusion.

Quoting Tom Storm
If self-actualization is a goal - what if your best self is as an efficient serial killer?


It's not about being the best at anything, it's about well-being.
Tom Storm May 31, 2021 at 21:14 #544936
Quoting praxis
t's not about being the best at anything, it's about well-being.


Isn't this completely lacking specificity? 'Wellbeing' is one of those dreadful marketing words, suitable for bookshop shelving. What constitutes 'wellbeing' and please no Sam Harris... :wink:
praxis May 31, 2021 at 21:24 #544940
Quoting Tom Storm
What constitutes 'wellbeing' and please no Sam Harris...


Sam Harris is a stoic?

Well-being in the stoic sense is often referred to as eudaemonia.

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Tom Storm May 31, 2021 at 21:26 #544942
Reply to praxis No I meant Harris' ongoing discussion about wellbeing as the foundation for morality. He also uses human flourishing.

Quoting praxis
Sam Harris is a stoic?
He's a millionaire celebrity influencer, isn't he?

praxis May 31, 2021 at 21:28 #544944
Quoting Tom Storm
No I meant Harris' ongoing discussion about wellbeing as the foundation for morality. He also uses human flourishing.


I think they call it utilitarianism.
god must be atheist May 31, 2021 at 22:04 #544961
Quoting praxis
It is all an illusion.


You are going form the general and non-specific to be absolutely lost, aimless and incapable.

Okay, so that's what self-actualization means. Got it. Check.
god must be atheist May 31, 2021 at 22:09 #544965
Quoting Tom Storm
If self-actualization is a goal - what if your best self is as an efficient serial killer?


Then you'd make a great team with those whose self-actualization goals are to be victims of serial murderers.
Tom Storm May 31, 2021 at 22:35 #544973
Reply to god must be atheist :up: Think of it as a happy collaboration.
Tom Storm May 31, 2021 at 22:38 #544974
Quoting praxis
I think they call it utilitarianism.


It resembles utilitarianism but it is not the same. Nuances.
baker June 06, 2021 at 18:43 #547125
Quoting praxis
That being the case, communing with nature (or literally whatever) could be seen as communing with God. Doesn’t seems there’s any point to pantheism without experiencing the “sense that one is part of divinity”. I formally submit that the pantheist could become lost in this sensing and unwittingly become quietist.

Becoming a tree hugger is just at one end of the pantheist spectrum. A fascination with power and being active is on the other end.
Valentinus June 06, 2021 at 19:27 #547135
Quoting god must be atheist
So M coined this phrase, I suspected, in order to finish the the thought process like every goal-oriented person does, and he carefully chose an expression that sounds meaningful while completely devoid of the same.


The way I understand his approach is that we can itemize our limitations but not what being bound by them permits to exist. So the "actualization" regards being able to be an agent more than making whatever that "self" may be come into existence ex nihilo.
god must be atheist June 06, 2021 at 21:10 #547173
Quoting Valentinus
The way I understand his approach is that we can itemize our limitations but not what being bound by them permits to exist. So the "actualization" regards being able to be an agent more than making whatever that "self" may be come into existence ex nihilo.


I admire the way in which you have understanding. What you wrote is completely incomprehensible to me. Interesting though, that this is what you call understanding.

Call me a bizarre person, but when I understand things, I link knowledge and logic and new knowledge to alter by rectifying, or else to validate my already existing internal conceptual model of the outside world.

How would you describe the process that you undergo when you practice "understanding"?
Valentinus June 06, 2021 at 21:29 #547181
Reply to god must be atheist
Well, the jibe aside, I meant to say, as you noted, that Maslow did not describe what "self-actualizing" meant as a quality in itself. My comment was only to remark that perhaps he was aware of that shortcoming. It is one way to read him. There are others.
god must be atheist June 06, 2021 at 21:31 #547183
Reply to Valentinus Thank you, Valentinus.
Valentinus June 06, 2021 at 21:37 #547185
Reply to god must be atheist
The pleasure is mine.
Christoffer June 14, 2021 at 09:52 #550252
Quoting Ross Campbell
is Stoicism a better guide to living than Christianity and should it replace the latter as a set of values to live by?


A better question would be: Do we need faith, gospels, fantasy, belief in God/Gods, prayers, rituals etc. in order to have guidelines to live by? Why is there a need for something that doesn't really relate to guidelines of living?
Foghorn June 15, 2021 at 10:25 #550663
Quoting Ciceronianus the White
Christians have hated, killed, and oppressed each other and non-Christians since it was founded, and avarice is more characteristic of Christians than charity.


Um, sorry, but this is a ridiculously warped, hopelessly simplistic interpretation of Christian culture.

It would be fair to state that such crimes have existed in Christian culture, and to some degree still do, no complaint there. But then such phenomena exist in every culture. So, Christians are human, no surprise in that. More to the point, hate, murder and oppression are not words which accurately describe Christian culture as a whole.

The vast scale of Christianity in particular, and religion in general, make it impossible to describe them with simplistic labels such as good or bad, right or wrong, just or evil etc. Any attempt to do so immediately identifies the speaker as an ideologue, not a person of reason. All the major religions are like reality itself, containers for all that is beautiful and ugly about human beings, but mostly the overwhelming mediocrity almost all of us suffer from.

I would agree that few if any Christians live up to the teachings of Jesus in every regard. Christians are typically entirely willing to agree with this, which is why they are always calling themselves sinners.

Christianity is probably best considered on a moment to moment basis. There are moments when all of us act in a manner that represents Christian ideals, and moments when we don't. Even Hitler loved his dogs.

The best Christians are typically invisible, as they are typically too busy serving to have time for giving sermons.
Ciceronianus June 15, 2021 at 11:17 #550673
Reply to Foghorn

I wasn't aware Jesus loved dogs, too, thereby making it one of those Christian ideals you reference.

But certainly, ideals of any kind are ideals. What distinguishes Christianity and Christians, though, I believe, is the extent to which the ideals are promoted and relentlessly expounded as peculiarly
Christian while they're being ignored so blithely. Self-righteousness, exclusivity and intolerance make hypocrisy particularly notable, and while Christians may be no more prone to sin than others, they enjoy the pretense of sinlessness.
Foghorn June 15, 2021 at 11:32 #550676
Quoting Ciceronianus the White
they enjoy the pretense of sinlessness.


In actual real world fact, it is extremely common for Christians to refer to themselves as sinners.

I get that some Christians can be pompously sanctimonious, and agree that is annoying. When my wife and I want to mock insult each other we sometimes say "Have a blessed day!" in a sing song voice, while the receiver scowls in defiance, "No I will not!!" :-)

We're not Christians by the way.
Ciceronianus June 15, 2021 at 15:44 #550771
Quoting Foghorn
n actual real world fact, it is extremely common for Christians to refer to themselves as sinners.


Oh yes. Some of them revel in being sinners, in fact, following the example set long ago by Augustine of Hippo. The more they sin, the more remarkable it is that they repent and are forgiven, and the more significant they become according to strange logic of the zealous. "Let he who is without sin....."

Quoting Foghorn
We're not Christians by the way.


I was one, as you might guess. I enjoy reading of the transition from the ancient Greco-Roman pagan world to the Christian West. It's an amazing story, but knowing it and knowing what I learned in life as a Catholic makes it difficult for me to admire Christianity the religion.

SophistiCat June 18, 2021 at 18:58 #552802
Apropos of the title and nothing else, just read this in an interview with a classics scholar Mary Beard:

Quoting Ancient Rome Will Never Get Old. Take It From Mary Beard. - NYT
I don’t know if this is novel to you, but in the last few years there has been a real resurgence of popular interest in Stoic philosophy — why’d you just roll your eyes? All to the good when people are interested in the ancient world, but this is one of the more mystifying bits of interest: clichéd self-help from a philosophy that, if you looked at it really hard, was nasty, fatalistic, bordering on fascist.

But what’s your hunch about why people are being drawn to Stoicism? What comes out in Marcus Aurelius particularly is rather clichéd thoughts: Never take a major decision when your mind is troubled. We can all agree with clichés like that. And they come with the rubber stamp of great antiquity because they were written by an emperor — an emperor who was about as brutal in massacring the enemy as Julius Caesar. But we tend to forget that side of him because he’s a bearded “philosopher.” It’s not very salutary to look at your Amazon ratings, but I always feel terribly pleased — though it doesn’t happen often — when I’m higher up than Marcus Aurelius.


:snicker:

(If you want to read the full interview and run into a paywall, open link in a private/incognito window. But this is the only bit that is relevant to Stoicism.)