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“Why should I be moral?” - Does the question even make sense?

Georgios Bakalis May 08, 2021 at 19:00 8975 views 32 comments
Ethics/morality is more or less the study of what you should do. So, when saying “why should I be moral?”, surely that is no different to saying: Why should I do what I should do.
That seems to not make sense (maybe?), so surely asking “why should I be moral” has its answer embedded in the question itself.
I feel like there is a mistake in her somewhere, please tell me.

Comments (32)

Seditious May 08, 2021 at 19:24 #533301
Morality is, for the most part, social leverage which seeks to control or confine behavior and thinking. Without the presence of others, say you had the planet all to yourself, where would morality or ethics manifest itself in your life?

I read the question more as "why should I conform to external expectations in regard to my interactions with others", which begs the question: what is it that you wish to achieve in your social interactions? How does one wish to be percieved? Morality and ethics are learned parameters, not entirely unlike the concept of indebtedness or "owing" something to somebody. What you owe to your neighbors, family, colleagues, friends and strangers as far as your behavior and attitude is surely determined by not only your desire to be perceived a certain way, but perhaps equally as much as how you wish to conduct your business and assert your will with as few obstacles as possible.
Georgios Bakalis May 08, 2021 at 19:29 #533303
Reply to Seditious Even if ethics is more or less there because of society (more or less what you are saying, I think) it’s still about what you should and should not do, is it not?
cal May 08, 2021 at 19:37 #533309
to be truly happy is to be at peace

being at peace there is no stress, anger or anxiety

to be at peace we must not affect anyone in a negative way

thats where the living without guilt comes in

to be truly happy we must be truly moral

"why should i be moral"

if we are truly moral we will all learn inner peace
Georgios Bakalis May 08, 2021 at 19:46 #533313
Reply to cal Fair enough
180 Proof May 08, 2021 at 20:34 #533345
Quoting Georgios Bakalis
why should I be moral?”

Why should you be rational? (or communicative? healthy? adaptable? sustainable?) Reason, history and experience strongly correlate not being "moral" (or rational, etc) with a significant likelihood that you will be more miserable (frustrated, dissatisfied, abject) throughout your life with others (especially strangers) and not less miserable. As a metacognitive eusocial species, it follows that every human group survival toolkit (i.e. culture) includes morals (rationality, etc) of one kind / degree or another.
god must be atheist May 09, 2021 at 01:26 #533463
Quoting Seditious
Morality is, for the most part, social leverage which seeks to control or confine behavior and thinking. Without the presence of others, say you had the planet all to yourself, where would morality or ethics manifest itself in your life?


Morality is social leverage on one part, and an unavoidable behaviour response on the other. The two parts are so distant, that I separated them, as described in my paper. The paper can be found here:
https://thephilosophyforum.com/discussion/10744/ethics-explained-to-smooth-out-all-wrinkles-in-current-debates-neo-darwinist-approach

If you have any comments to make on the points of that paper, please respond to it in that thread. Thanks.

As to why we should be moral: our trigger motivation is the expectancy of guilt. The formation of morality is evolution-driven. This is also shown in my paper, which is quite lengthy.
Banno May 09, 2021 at 01:48 #533467
Reply to Georgios Bakalis No mistake. Ethical propositions state what one ought do.

@Seditious still has to address the issue of what to do, with or without social coercion, and so doesn't really address your point.

@cal is just confused.

@180 Proof verges on the naturalistic fallacy - which is unusual. @god must be atheist explicitly commits the naturalistic fallacy.

180 Proof May 09, 2021 at 01:52 #533470
Reply to Banno "Verges" =| commits. And, even so, my conclusion is not invalid or false.
Judaka May 09, 2021 at 01:54 #533472
Reply to Georgios Bakalis
Morality often just the logic used to justify naturally occurring emotional and psychological reactions to events. I think it correlates with ones emotions and psychology far more than most people want to admit. Even things like being afraid of violence and thus condemning it, thus, morality is in of itself the result of your motivations and that's why it doesn't make much sense for most people to ask "why should I be moral". Being moral means pretty much doing what you already wanted to do anyway.

If there's anything for me that answers "why should I be moral" then it's the concept of doing what is in my best interests and the best interests of others. I could bully and harass people, I could steal and cheat but I know that society will be better for everyone, including me if people don't do that. I want to be the change I want to see in the world and that's my motivation. However, I'm not sure if I didn't have that, whether I'd be out bullying and stealing, I don't think so, still think I'm mostly just doing what I want.
Banno May 09, 2021 at 01:57 #533475
Banno May 09, 2021 at 02:01 #533477
Quoting Judaka
If there's anything for me that answers "why should I be moral" then it's the concept of doing what is in my best interests and the best interests of others.


Doing what is in your best interest is not the same as doing what is right.

Serving yourself is not being moral. Doing what is in the best interest of others is where morality begins.
god must be atheist May 09, 2021 at 02:26 #533481
Quoting Banno
god must be atheist explicitly commits the naturalistic fallacy


If you read my paper you'd maybe make a different derisive remark.

This remark here by you actually was not derisive. I sense you truly stated your honest opinion, which I appreciate.

However, I stand by my naturalistic -- well, fallacy, if you wish. I, of course, think it's not a fallacy, and I carry the naturalistic approach farther in the paper than most have. I may be mistaken, of course, as I don't read. Please read the paper and comment on it if you feel like it. If you care, please leave the comment on that thread. Thanks.

Judaka May 09, 2021 at 02:31 #533482
Reply to Banno
They're not mutually exclusive, a good deed doesn't have to involve self-sacrifice, acting appropriately doesn't require noble motivations. Morality begins with a set of guidelines or rules for how we should behave. Those guidelines do have to involve me doing anything at all, I can consider adultery immoral even if I'm single. "Best" interests? Doesn't even have to involve anyone's interests. Sometimes two people doing something that's nobody else's business like homosexuality can be considered immoral.

Perhaps you're just saying this is your preference but even then... well I don't want to get into any potential virtue signalling you're going to try on me, if you think it's about doing what's in the "best interests" of others then okay, lol.



god must be atheist May 09, 2021 at 02:31 #533483
Quoting Banno
Doing what is in the best interest of others is where morality begins


Try defining "moral" with meaning something other than doing good for others or for the self. I will show you that there is no difference between doing moral and doing good, and therefore "moral" could be extracted from the discourse of philosophy and of social sciences, if it were not for the guilt and the pleasure generated by not doing or doing, respectively, that, which one feels one should.

It's all in the fucking paper, if you pardon my language.
god must be atheist May 09, 2021 at 02:35 #533485
Quoting Judaka
well I don't want to get into any potential virtue signalling


Why not saving your drowning child is a wholly different immoral action from viewing adultery as an immoral action is perfectly described in my utterly unread paper. You don't believe me, I know. Try reading it.
god must be atheist May 09, 2021 at 02:36 #533486
Quoting Judaka
Morality begins with a set of guidelines or rules for how we should behave.


There are two different set of guidelines by their inherent nature, and everyone in history has ignored that to date. Please read the paper if you wish to know how I view that.
praxis May 09, 2021 at 02:46 #533492
Quoting god must be atheist
Try reading it.


17 days and not a whit of interest. Perhaps morality is not your thing.
Judaka May 09, 2021 at 03:55 #533510
Reply to god must be atheist
I don't know why you are so insistent on having people read your paper, I listened to it for a bit and well first of all, if someone tried to read your thread rather than listen to it, I think they'd give up pretty quickly, need some formatting. You start out by describing what a moral act is, talking about how certain acts are indistinguishable from each other but no one in their right mind defines a moral act as something that makes you happy. How can helping people and working yourself to death for your corporate master be indistinguishable? I was already pretty much done by this point, your premises are far from reasonable.

You offer all your points in rhetorical questions and you write as though you were thinking out loud. These points could have been so much more succinct, you write so much while saying so little. Even after I was halfway through and I still had no idea where you were going with your argument. You gave me so much to disagree with before we even got to your main point that I had lost interest. It's not surprising to me that your paper is ignored, to even rebut it would be a tremendous task because of how many questionable claims you have in it.

Try rewriting it with statements rather than rhetorical questions, reformat it - give headings or something. Drop the raping children examples and rewrite your points so they're more succinct.


BC May 09, 2021 at 04:27 #533512
Quoting Georgios Bakalis
so surely asking “why should I be moral” has its answer embedded in the question itself.


It does. Just rearrange the words a bit: "I should be moral." Maybe you will be, maybe you will not be, but surely you should be. Never mind "why". Just be as moral as you can manage.

Now all you have to figure out is what being moral means.
Banno May 09, 2021 at 05:30 #533519
Quoting god must be atheist
If you read my paper you'd maybe make a different derisive remark.


I flicked through it.

I think you are right. I would. Several.
baker May 09, 2021 at 07:04 #533524
Quoting Georgios Bakalis
Ethics/morality is more or less the study of what you should do. So, when saying “why should I be moral?”, surely that is no different to saying: Why should I do what I should do.

It is inevitable that one follows some moral code. The question is, which one, and how to make that choice.
"Why should I do what I should do?" asks about the justification for the choice of one moral code over others.

The question is actually asking:
"Why should I behave in line with moral code A, as opposed to moral code B?"

Practically, this translates into questions such as:
"Why should I not steal, instead of stealing?"
"Why should I always speak truthfully, instead of speaking the truth only sometimes and lie at other times?"
"Why should I follow the Christian moral code, instead of the Muslim or Viking one?"
TheMadFool May 09, 2021 at 08:35 #533541
Quoting Georgios Bakalis
why should I be moral?


Kant seems to be. the go to person here. Suppose the answer to the above question is, "there are no good reasons why one should be moral." Would this answer license you to be immoral? The question itself seems to have the seed for such a course of action; why else would you ask it? I mean the query suggests that the only reason why someone would choose to be moral is if there's sufficient warrant. Absent justification for morality, it's implied, one can opt for an immoral existence.

If one is immoral, however, there is no reason why others should not be as well. Are you prepared to face the consequences, likely painful and even life-threatening? Immorality fails the categorical imperative of Kant that itself can be rephrased as a question, "can immorality be made into an universal law that everyone has to follow everyday and everywhere?" I fear the answer would be an emphatic "no!"

Thus, in some sense, you should be moral because you want others to be moral and if you make an exception of yourself, others will too and there's nothing you can do about it but then that would mean, inter alia, the collapse of civilization itself and that would be the least of your problems.

Interestingly or so I think, what of the inverse question, why should I be immoral? I'm no expert but the world seems to have a personality that makes it prudent/necessary to deviate from the straight and narrow and the legal system (judiciary/police) is almost like a refrigerator - there to keep people from going bad, not to make people good. In short, there are "good" reasons to be bad, in fact not being bad, paradoxicaly, can be as "bad" as not being good.

Also, the whole enterprise of seeking reasons to be good seems misguided in a sense. Look at altruism. Whatever it is, the aim of altruism seems to relegate/eliminate an aim i.e. altruism is about being good, period. Sure, there are reasons baked into goodness itself - the definition of good contains within it the reasons why one has to be good. That, unfortunately or not, can't be helped. However, altruism is about ignoring/eliminating reasons for being good as pertains to the altruist faerself. This can be read as an attempt, successful or not you be the judge, to reject/oppose the instinct/desire justification for morality. The altruist is good not because, the goal is, there's a reason (in its current state, benefiting the altruist) for being so; the altruist is good because good to faer is self-justifying i.e. good because good but we all know self-justification is an logical illusion - it isn't despite the word "justification" a justification).
Tom Storm May 09, 2021 at 09:55 #533551
Quoting Georgios Bakalis
Ethics/morality is more or less the study of what you should do. So, when saying “why should I be moral?”, surely that is no different to saying: Why should I do what I should do.


Morality is a lot of things and is approached from many difference angles. Generally a more helpful formulation for me would be: morality is the intuition that one ought to do that which is right and ought not do that which is wrong. Then comes the interesting bit - the choices you will make.
god must be atheist May 09, 2021 at 16:35 #533658
Quoting praxis
17 days and not a whit of interest. Perhaps morality is not your thing.


Either that or morality is not other people's thing.

god must be atheist May 09, 2021 at 16:37 #533660
Quoting Judaka
Try rewriting it with statements rather than rhetorical questions, reformat it - give headings or something. Drop the raping children examples and rewrite your points so they're more succinct.


I think I'll take your advice. Thanks, this was the first time someone actually gave some useful advice, and AFTER reading it or attempting to read it.
god must be atheist May 09, 2021 at 16:40 #533663
Quoting Banno
If you read my paper you'd maybe make a different derisive remark.
— god must be atheist

I flicked through it.

I think you are right. I would. Several.


Hey! I think I won that argument. (By predicting the results precisely.)
Pfhorrest May 09, 2021 at 17:03 #533683
DingoJones May 10, 2021 at 05:57 #533919
Quoting Georgios Bakalis
Ethics/morality is more or less the study of what you should do. So, when saying “why should I be moral?”, surely that is no different to saying: Why should I do what I should do.
That seems to not make sense (maybe?), so surely asking “why should I be moral” has its answer embedded in the question itself.
I feel like there is a mistake in her somewhere, please tell me.


Ethics isn’t the study of what you should do its more specific that that. It would be the study of what you do according to an ethical standard. It isnt the study of what you should do to train your dog for example, right? It’s specific to a ethical standard, of which there are many different kinds.
So rephrased “why should I be moral?” is actually more like “why should I do what I should do according to so and so ethical standard”, which illustrates the two different contexts of the word “should”. It is an awkward sentence but none the less it isn’t fallacious. I think you fell into a semantic trap .
Book273 May 11, 2021 at 09:13 #534323
Quoting god must be atheist
It's all in the fucking paper, if you pardon my language


it isn't actually. The "paper" as you call it isn't overly clear. It is also based on an assumed premise and once that premise is removed, the paper falls apart. I was hoping for more. Hopefully not your best work.
Pinprick May 12, 2021 at 03:58 #534658
Reply to Georgios Bakalis

If you want to take things a step further, try answering why you need a reason to be moral. Honestly, I think determining whether or not one must have a reason needs to be established first before this question can even be approached.
thewonder May 12, 2021 at 05:08 #534690
Reply to god must be atheist
I wasn't quite sure how you got from the drowning child example to the other examples of autonomous moral behavior. It seemed like you were almost arguing for a kind of evolutionary Sentimentalism before citing a set of examples which would either refute Sentimentalism or suggest that there was something wrong with human nature. You're also making arguments about what morality is and not what people ought to do, which I don't think you have adequately elaborated upon so as to have moved beyond Kant, Spinoza, Kierkegaard, Nietzsche, Socrates and Aristotle. It seems that you're suggesting that there exists autonomous moral behavior, which is innate and acquired through evolution, and acquired moral behavior, which is socially constructed, both of which you suggest are inextricably bound to the replication of a person's DNA. That seems like a sweeping scientific claim that would require further evidence, as well as that your philosophical claim about what morality is, one that is wholly apart from any suggestion as to what it ought to be, remains to either be proven or justified.

I don't want to come down too hard on it as you have written over ten pages, but, as you have been so insistent upon people reading it in this thread, I felt like you were all too eager for any form of critique whatsoever. I would consider reading up on the Sentimentalism of David Hume that Immanuel Kant took such great efforts to refute, whatever evolutionary Psychology you can find on the subject matter, as well as even Peter Kropotkin's Mutual Aid, taking a step back, reconsidering putting forth a theory of Ethics that would be what The Origin of the Species was for both Biology and Christianity, tossing some ideas around, and writing a fuller description of your Ethical theory.

Being said, you probably shouldn't be so insistent upon that people read it in this thread.
thewonder May 12, 2021 at 05:13 #534691
Reply to Georgios Bakalis
I can't remember who it is, but someone else in this thread said the question was rather semantic, which I agree with.

It seems like your postulating that Ethics just simply exist. I am of this supposition as well, but have no real proof of it at this current point in time.