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Realizing you are evil

Caleb Mercado April 29, 2021 at 01:44 12150 views 50 comments
Most people see themselves as good. This is just not the case. I think we are born with both potentials but tilt towards evil. Anything too add?
We suppress our dark side too fit into society. I believe good takes work.

"The shadow personifies everything that the subject refuses to acknowledge about himself"[15]:284 and represents "a tight passage, a narrow door, whose painful constriction no one is spared who goes down to the deep well."[15]:21

Comments (50)

Valentinus April 29, 2021 at 01:56 #529019
Good and Evil is a tough topic.
I look at it more from the point of view of education. I started off very clueless and then all these events and people helped by noticing my mistakes.

Love hurts.
Caleb Mercado April 29, 2021 at 02:07 #529023
It is. But we liv in it. I think we liv in a world of good and evil and that is the battle everyone faces. Most of the actions we take are a problem of good and evil. And most of us are not good.

I realized i was evil trough introspection and fantasy. I think it’s important that everyone realizes this about themselves.

But who wants too go down that road. That’s why most people never do it.
T Clark April 29, 2021 at 03:20 #529040
Quoting Caleb Mercado
Most people see themselves as good. This is just not the case.


I think that one's position on the good or evil of humanity depends on temperament and personality mostly. People who like others think they're ok. People who don't, don't. I like people a lot, individually and in the aggregate. I generally try not to judge people one way or another. I think humans are social and that we tend to like each other, all other things being equal. Of course, all other things are never equal.

Most people don't go down that road because it doesn't take anyone anywhere good.
Pinprick April 29, 2021 at 03:27 #529044
Reply to Caleb Mercado

If you’re going to take this topic seriously (that is, philosophically), then you need to start with defining good and evil. My guess is that during the process of attempting to do so you will find them to be rather useless terms; they’re too vague and subjective to be of any use in any universal way. But perhaps you’ll surprise me.

Having said that, I agree that humans are capable of just about any act when placed in the right environment/circumstances. We all have natural abilities and limitations, of course, but I don’t think those are particularly relevant to the discussion. However, I don’t feel the need to label our general inclinations/actions as good or evil in the absolute sense of the terms.
Tom Storm April 29, 2021 at 03:53 #529053
Quoting Caleb Mercado
This is just not the case. I think we are born with both potentials but tilt towards evil. Anything too add?


Good and evil seem to me to be almost indefinable theological categories. I don't know many people who think they are good. I think more accurately people imagine they are 'not evil'. That said, many people think they are bad (often indefinably so), hence the proliferation of self-help paraphernalia and substance use to distract or attempt to divert from what one imagines one's nature to be.
Caleb Mercado April 29, 2021 at 04:16 #529059
One way of saying something is evil is that you know what can hurt you. Because of this you know how to hurt others. And if you do that with the intention too hurt and derive pleasure from it, that's evil.

Most people i know think they are good. But let that be another thing.
Caleb Mercado April 29, 2021 at 04:22 #529060
Reply to T Clark
It does take you somewhere good. It's only by being able too be evil that you can be good
Tom Storm April 29, 2021 at 04:24 #529061
Quoting Caleb Mercado
And if you do that with the intention too hurt and derive pleasure from it, that's evil.


Evil? Maybe not. Confused, lost, broken, fractured.... These may explain the above rather than evil per say.

Is the action evil or the person who does it? Are the consequences evil, or the intention behind it? Or both, or none? Can you do an evil thing to accomplish a greater good?
Caleb Mercado April 29, 2021 at 04:27 #529062
No no. It's evil at it's core because you want it for it's on reason. Too hurt another and you enjoy it. It's the person who is evil.

You have to kinda be able to be a evil person too do good. Or else, you can't do anyone anything
Outlander April 29, 2021 at 04:44 #529063
Human "evil" is commonly mistaken for one or more of the following:

- Being an animal without conscious ie. not knowing any better (ignorance)
- Wickedness, selfishness, greed, any of the "sins" (knowing better but choosing to act otherwise for material or emotional gain ie. superfluous or immoral profit or one's "jollies" often regardless of future consequence, closely related to ignorance)
- Mental illness (ignorance)

None of these are in and of themself, evil, per se. You'll know evil when you see it. Or, perhaps not. That is what they call "insidious" in the business.

True evil is rare in this indebted, overpopulated world. Everyone believes themselves to be justified, that benefit will always outweigh risk, that success outweighs sacrifice, in other words "only God can judge me". But when that happens however, hypocrites and the lukewarm are revealed and tunes are changed rather quickly. At such a point however, such changes are typically futile.
Caleb Mercado April 29, 2021 at 04:51 #529065
I don't believe true evil is rare. It's just that we don't confess too it. Most people in nazi germany did terrible things. What makes us so different from them? They are also human. And i do believe what they did in nazi germany was evil.
BC April 29, 2021 at 04:53 #529067
Reply to Caleb Mercado Following Christian theology (interpreting--or misinterpreting--Old Testament) we were created innocent but we listened to the snake in the Garden, disobeyed orders, and have thus been cursed with Original Sin ever since. That's one way we are not good.

A later text from Isaiah says "All we, like sheep, have gone astray,
each of us has turned to our own way."

Even if we were not cursed with original sin, we are a moral error-prone lot, and like stupid sheep, we wander off into the weeds and sin, especially if the weeds are high enough so others can't see what we are up to.

Following the non-theological approaches of Darwin and Freud, we descended from apes and have the emotional features of our nearest non-human relative, Pan troglodytes, aka, the chimpanzee. We have the emotional drives of the chimp hitched to greatly enhanced intellectual power with which we carry out our red-hot urges with a vengeance. That gets us into all sorts of trouble again and again and again and again...

We try to be good, and sometimes we are. If we are phlegmatic and lethargic (like, dull and lazy) we probably will behave acceptably well most of the time. Ambitious energetic go-getters run larger risks of behaving badly, because they inevitably find that somebody is in their fucking way.
Caleb Mercado April 29, 2021 at 05:01 #529070
Yes, I agree. i have learned that the snake represents knowledge of the self (not saying knowledge is bad) But they then realized they where naked. Got ashamed and hid. When they later realized they could get hurt, they gained the knowledge of evil bacause they could then hurt others.

The evolution idea is interesting because young chimps petrol the boarder and if they see another chimp tribe and outnumber them, they kill them. It's like war, like we do.

Yes, but that does not make the lazy people good. If they had the upper hand, what then?
Tom Storm April 29, 2021 at 05:29 #529080
Quoting Caleb Mercado
No no. It's evil at it's core because you want it for it's on reason. Too hurt another and you enjoy it. It's the person who is evil.

You have to kinda be able to be a evil person too do good. Or else, you can't do anyone anything


So you have defined what evil is. You're not really asking anyone else.
Tom Storm April 29, 2021 at 05:31 #529081
Quoting Caleb Mercado
The evolution idea is interesting because young chimps petrol the boarder and if they see another chimp tribe and outnumber them, they kill them. It's like war, like we do.


I'm hearing a lot of echos of Jordan Peterson around these parts.
Caleb Mercado April 29, 2021 at 05:33 #529082
someone asked me too define it, so i defined it.

Yes i have gained alot of knowledge from him. I'm not taking credit for these ideas. I mean you do get your knowledge somewhere, and i surely didn't think them up
Tom Storm April 29, 2021 at 06:00 #529085
Quoting Caleb Mercado

No no. It's evil at it's core because you want it for it's on reason. Too hurt another and you enjoy it. It's the person who is evil.


It's a definition, sure. But more like a journalist's (narrow) definition than a philosophical one. Are you saying evil can't happen if the protagonist is not enjoying it?
Jack Cummins April 29, 2021 at 06:45 #529091
Reply to Caleb Mercado
I think that great harm can be done in telling people that they are evil. I think that your quote on the shadow may be taken from Jung, you do not say.I am not sure that it is simply that evil needs to be defined, but more considered on a critical level. Part of the problem may be that some people may have sought to define evil, and in doing so have projected it onto others. It can be too easy to see the evil in Sadaam Hussein and the politicians etc.

When I say that harm can be done through telling people that they are evil, I am thinking of the way people have been labelled as sinners, and how many, especially Catholics and others brought up in certain religious backgrounds, have grown up with guilt complexes.The consideration of what is evil is extremely complex. However, if you are speaking about Jung's idea of the shadow, I think that this needs to be seen more about potential for destruction, towards self or others.
Caleb Mercado April 29, 2021 at 07:02 #529095
Yes it’s definitely about jungs idea.

No. It’s still evil but not at the same level.
I don’t think people will say that the holocaust wasn’t evil. And most people participated in it. And we are most likely as most people. Sometimes you can’t reduce things.
Jack Cummins April 29, 2021 at 07:34 #529099
Reply to Caleb Mercado
Your answer seems to be in response to mine, and I will say that I would certainly say that the holocaust was evil. Here, I am thinking that we are using the word evil, in its sense of the devastation caused, rather than in just the conventional moral sense, although they are interconnected.

If you are framing your thinking, in the context of Jung's view of the shadow, which is a very complex topic, he is suggesting that we need to work on ourselves in such a way that aspects of ourselves, which are conventionally viewed as evil, are integrated so that they are less toxic. An obvious example would be that we need to cope with feelings of anger in ways which are not harmful.


Caleb Mercado April 29, 2021 at 07:39 #529102
My top sentence was a response too you. The second one to someone else.

Yes agree with that. But i think we should also see how we too could be nazi guards (not necessarily racist)
Tzeentch April 29, 2021 at 07:47 #529104
Quoting Caleb Mercado
Most people see themselves as good. This is just not the case. I think we are born with both potentials but tilt towards evil. Anything too add?


Evil, in my opinion, requires an intention to hurt. The degree to which one produces suffering unintentionally, I call that ignorance.

I don't agree that most people are tilted towards evil, though maybe there is something to be said for most people doing harm as a result of their ignorance.
Tom Storm April 29, 2021 at 08:19 #529118
Quoting Tzeentch
though maybe there is something to be said for most people doing harm as a result of their ignorance.


On the same theme, there may also be something to be said for people doing bad things when they are damaged.
counterpunch April 29, 2021 at 13:59 #529208
I'm morally continent. I'm not morally virtuous. I don't do right because it is good. I know the difference between right and wrong, and will generally choose to do right, and generally regret doing wrong, but circumstances dictate a great deal.

I'm not sure evil is a useful concept, but insofar as evil might be defined relative to the above, I think it requires malicious aforethought - that is, not merely knowingly doing wrong, but choosing to do wrong for the purpose of causing harm to others.

I agree with...

Reply to Tzeentch

...above!

I also read Reply to Bitter Crank and agree to a large extent, but would point to the fact that there is religion, politics, philosophy, law and economics, to morally regulate human behaviours. Sure, we may:

Quoting Bitter Crank
have the emotional drives of the chimp hitched to greatly enhanced intellectual power with which we carry out our red-hot urges with a vengeance.


..but would rather do so in a world where human behaviour is morally regulated. Hence the speculation that, people support law and order, not because they themselves need telling what to do, but as a control upon the behaviours of their fellow man.







Pantagruel April 29, 2021 at 14:17 #529213
Evil is antisocial, although not all antisocial behaviours are evil. Most evil people try to conceal evil deeds behind a facade of virtue. Which shows that they know what evil is. Evil deeds cause harm, not just knowingly or incidentally, but intentionally. People can be greedy, which is evil if it harms others, but unselfconsciously so; if they don't try to conceal their greed, they may not know it is evil (ignorance). Some people revel in evil and do not try to conceal it. They usually get locked up or put down.
BitconnectCarlos April 29, 2021 at 15:08 #529232
Reply to Caleb Mercado Reply to Tzeentch

I agree with Tzeentch that most people aren't "tilted" towards evil, but the right situations or circumstances can allow us to see sides of ourselves that we wouldn't normally see. People don't fully know themselves.

For instance, sure, there's you right now behind your computer screen, but there's also a version of you that's tired, hungry, and under a ton of stress.... and if you take those conditions over weeks or months it can reveal a side of you that you never knew you had. Institutions shape people.
synthesis April 29, 2021 at 16:19 #529247
Quoting Caleb Mercado
Most people see themselves as good. This is just not the case. I think we are born with both potentials but tilt towards evil. Anything too add?


I've always subscribed to the notion that there is an equal amount of good and bad in everything...including people.

Good makes bad, bad makes good. How can it be any other way?
Possibility April 29, 2021 at 16:59 #529260
Quoting Caleb Mercado
I don't believe true evil is rare. It's just that we don't confess too it. Most people in nazi germany did terrible things. What makes us so different from them? They are also human. And i do believe what they did in nazi germany was evil.


I think experience, awareness and circumstance are pretty much all that distinguishes us from people in Nazi Germany who did terrible things. I think we need to recognise our own capacity to head down that road alongside our capacity to ensure something like that never happens again.

But I don’t believe that labelling what they did ‘evil’ helps us in this. It only encourages us to disassociate ourselves from it. That is evil; I’m not evil; therefore I could never do that. Problem solved. This prevents us from recognising ourselves in people like Hitler, who would have genuinely felt that he was solving his country’s problems.

As for tilting towards evil, I do think our kind of ‘default’ - whenever we anticipate a lack of energy, time, resources, etc - is towards ignorance, isolation and exclusion. I think what we often refer to as ‘evil’ in human behaviour stems from this default.
Manuel April 29, 2021 at 17:26 #529262
Evil is a high bar. Some people surely reach that. Intention is important as others have mentioned. Perhaps something like "causally cruel" would be a more fair description. Then again, modern neoliberal society has induced people to believe that "this is just the way the world is", nothing can be done to change things.

But one could say with more confidence that our current market society is, at best, quite pathological what with endless consumption, pointless competition and survival of the fittest.

It's a hard problem.
baker April 29, 2021 at 17:53 #529272
Quoting Caleb Mercado
You have to kinda be able to be a evil person too do good. Or else, you can't do anyone anything

You seem to be starting from the position that a person has a "true self", a "core" and that this "core" is permanent, unchangeable, and knowable.

While such a position is convenient when it comes to judging and condemning people, it's also impossible to prove it.
deleteduserax April 29, 2021 at 17:54 #529273
Reply to Caleb Mercado I think evil involves a pathological condition
Apollodorus April 29, 2021 at 19:10 #529302
Quoting Caleb Mercado
Most people see themselves as good. This is just not the case. I think we are born with both potentials but tilt towards evil. Anything too add?
We suppress our dark side too fit into society. I believe good takes work.


Well, animals seem to get along just fine. Some "less evolved" cultures where materialism is not as pronounced as in "more evolved" ones seem to be doing OK too.

So, I'm not sure we "tilt towards evil" naturally. Maybe it tends to happen in certain environments and circumstances more than in others.

But in general, we want good for ourselves and in most cases we feel good when we do good for others. Evil seems to be an aberration that society needs to suppress in order to protect itself.



spirit-salamander April 29, 2021 at 19:39 #529311
Quoting Caleb Mercado
Most people see themselves as good. This is just not the case. I think we are born with both potentials but tilt towards evil. Anything too add?
We suppress our dark side too fit into society. I believe good takes work.


I agree with you, and two quotes come to mind:

"68. “I did that,” says my memory. “I could not have done that,” says my pride, and remains inexorable. Eventually—the memory yields." (Nietzsche, Friedrich. Beyond Good and Evil)

"The prayer: ‘lead me not into temptation’ means ‘do not let me see who I am’." (Arthur Schopenhauer - The World as Will and Representation: Volume 1)

I also think that even the kindest and most even-tempered person has the potential for mean-spiritedness and cruelty, and to take pleasure in it.

But evil could become weaker and weaker with each generation.
deleteduserax April 29, 2021 at 19:39 #529312
Reply to Apollodorus that's the accurate word, an aberration
Apollodorus April 29, 2021 at 21:25 #529353
Quoting Alexandros
that's the accurate word, an aberration


In the old days behavioral aberrations were judged in terms of ethics. Nowadays political correctness tends to provide the standard of reference in determining what does or does not constitute aberration. As society and culture become more and more politicized, clear distinctions between what is ethically right or wrong, or good and evil, become blurred.
bert1 April 29, 2021 at 23:07 #529413
Realisations of my own evil were for me a relief. Sometimes an awakening. Generally a positive experience. Catching glimpses of my own pretentious foolishness is far worse. Cunt or wanker? I'd rather be a cunt I think, but I fear I may be both.
unenlightened April 30, 2021 at 08:54 #529521
Judgement is violence. Especially self judgement. We teach it and build society around it, but it is not necessary.

https://thephilosophyforum.com/discussion/10719/non-violent-communication

Reply to bert1 Female masturbation is a wondrous, joyful, beautiful thing, and so are you.
Anand-Haqq April 30, 2021 at 11:30 #529546
Reply to Caleb Mercado

. There is no good and there is no evil ...

. There are human beings ... Whose nature is in TAO ...

. Those who are aware of it are wise beings ...

. Those who are not ... are the ignorants ... they may be knowledgeable ... they may have theories about Life ... but they don't have Life ...

. The wise Lives ... The ignorant pretends to Live ...
bert1 April 30, 2021 at 15:24 #529587
Reply to unenlightened That's all very true Un. I'm not condemning myself in a particularly self-hatey way I don't think, and I don't mean to advocate that. I should try being a bit more positive occasionally. Historically when I've thought very positive things about myself I tend to immediately humiliate myself, fall into holes, step on rakes, upset women, and generally fuck everything up. So the negativity is a method of self-regulation a bit.
unenlightened April 30, 2021 at 17:37 #529627
Reply to bert1 Yeah I've upset a few rakes and stepped on some women in my time too.

How fragile we are!
hope August 09, 2021 at 00:50 #577627
Quoting Caleb Mercado
We suppress our dark side too fit into society. I believe good takes work.


You suppress what society has brainwashed you into thinking is bad so you can avoid shame.

Solution is to change your mind about it and accept it as good.

Example of this would be feminist brainwashing men into thinking their masculinity is toxic.

Once you accept it as good inside yourself then the external insults will have no effect.

Do it and make god proud. Show the world what the universe created!
hope August 09, 2021 at 00:54 #577630
Quoting Valentinus
noticing my mistakes.


The universe doesn't make mistakes. and nothing exists except the universe.
hope August 09, 2021 at 00:55 #577631
Quoting Caleb Mercado
I realized i was evil trough introspection and fantasy.


Forget being good. Work on becoming whole.

kudos August 15, 2021 at 02:32 #579842
In my mind, there will always be good. Good and evil both imply an abstract entity and some quality with which it reveals something about itself in a relation. But when we say ‘good’ in the common sense, we try and bridge the gap between our individuality and an outside objectivity. The relation takes the form of a symbolic appeal rather than an observed quality.

So you can see why many previous comments have questioned the validity of ‘good’ usage on the internet, where our identity is temporarily veiled by a mask of anonymity and the entities and interests we represent are implicit rather than explicit. For me it wouldn’t be surprising if you were to meet some of them in person that they would not surprise you with the exactitude of what they consider the right and proper way.
Mikie August 15, 2021 at 03:33 #579856
Quoting Caleb Mercado
Most people see themselves as good. This is just not the case. I think we are born with both potentials but tilt towards evil. Anything too add?


Yes: what is meant by “good” and “evil”?

Before that’s answered, we’re talking passed each other.
Josh Alfred August 15, 2021 at 03:46 #579863
Good and evil, like most other things, are potentials.

When a being is developed with conditioning that make him good he is good, when conditioned to do evil, he is evil. Once you reach a certain age in development, maturity, you are by the states ruling, free to act on these potentials. As reason befits them, so they act.

Some people's goodness is stronger than their evil side, and visa versa.

There is also genetics to consider, but I am a philosopher not a geneticist. I can only claim that some people are more prone to act certain ways, behave, more or less towards moral degrees, because of their genetics. .

Having a Moral Sense is very important. Since most religions teach of doing good and being good, religious culture offers good people

To act for good in and of itself is another step up the chain of moral notation..
Benj96 August 15, 2021 at 10:40 #579956
Reply to Caleb Mercado
I don’t believe one can choose unless they taste both goodness and evil. I myself am acutely aware of my worst and most toxic behaviour. It makes me unsettled and ashamed to consider it. Sad in fact. Even disgusted. However without fully embracing and recognising this never ending potential to be “the worst” could I ever steer clear of it.

If something is hidden from you by yourself, if you are dishonest with yourself, if you pretend that you could never possibly be so terrible, that is the exact moment when you are at most risk of behaving in such a way. No one is infallible. Those who believe they cannot be at fault have no capacity to correct themselves for the better.

This is why self- reflection and contemplation plays such a huge role in all religions as well as meditation, learning and self awareness.

Consider a psychopath, their inability to empathise with another means they simply cannot ever admit fault. Guilt is not a feature of their emotional environment. Therefore it’s open season on all behaviours which can meet a personal goal - manipulation, back-stabbing, exploitation etc.
deletedmemberrw September 15, 2021 at 18:11 #595279
Quoting Caleb Mercado
Most people see themselves as good. This is just not the case. I think we are born with both potentials but tilt towards evil. Anything too add?


We live in a society that rewards psychopathy, morally bankrupt people. The gooder you are in this society, the worse off you'll be. That's the game. In general it's a cruel reality we're in, full of suffering, each of us contributes to one way or the other. So yes, most of the "good" people are actually bad when you take into account many many things.
Outlander September 15, 2021 at 18:47 #595293
Quoting RAW
We live in a society that rewards psychopathy, morally bankrupt people.


A society? Try a world. It was much worse before, at least now people have to at least pretend to follow accountability, morality, social contract(s), etc. Democratically elected leaders. A macabre game of hot potato, where all the chefs know each other.

Quoting RAW
The gooder you are in this society, the worse off you'll be. That's the game.


The more naive you are in this society, the worse off you'll be. Which fools far too often equate with innocence. Which as the songs go, can never last.. Naturally very few learn to walk the line and balance between opposing concepts, to gaze into the abyss without having it gaze into you, mostly because everybody's life is different and one man's reluctance to trust or distrust can and often is the difference between wealth, poverty, happiness, despair, and yes even life and death. That may be the game, but not everyone wants to play it. This is why people create groups of mutual benefit. Clubs, nations, religions, cults, what have you.

Quoting RAW
In general it's a cruel reality we're in, full of suffering.


I've seen worse.

Quoting RAW
So yes, most of the "good" people are actually bad when you take into account many many things.


Sure, and the light in my room distracts me from true peace and contemplation by ever so annoyingly illuminating the contents of said room. Therefore, the light is actually the dark when absolutely no one takes into account anything.
deletedmemberrw September 15, 2021 at 19:07 #595298
Quoting Outlander
I've seen worse.


:-) You've been outside the torture chamber, witnessed even worse?