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"Putting Cruelty First" and "The Liberalism of Fear"

Banno January 22, 2021 at 06:05 11350 views 55 comments
Judith N. Shklar came to my attention the other day. Another unsung woman of philosophy, she was a colleague of Rawls, she was a defender of liberalism.

Putting Cruelty First is not her most famous essay. Shklar's great knowledge of the Enlightenment contrasts Machiavelli to Montaigne and Montesquieu. By looking at Machiavelli through the eye of those who rejected him and the eyes of his victims, she shows how rejecting cruelty lies at the heart of liberalism.

Placing cruelty first, the most evil of all evils, is incompatible with the faith of the zealot. It makes the conqueror the least admirable of man. It dethrones mankind from their place as the pinnacle of nature. Seeing virtue in the suffering of the victim of cruelty becomes for Shklar an escape from misanthropy.

Anyway, here it is for your consideration.

https://www.dissentmagazine.org/wp-content/files_mf/1389811110d4Shklar.pdf

Comments (55)

TheMadFool January 22, 2021 at 07:56 #491447
I'll read the essay later if you don't mind but for a start,

Quoting Banno
Seeing virtue in the suffering of the victim of cruelty becomes for Shklar an escape from misanthropy.


bears a striking resemblance to theodicy. In both cases some of us would rather say no to the obvious conclusion from evil/cruelty in the world and opt for saving the phenomena i.e maintain the integrity of the belief that god/people are good.

I suppose there's more going on in such an attitude, psychologically speaking, than people know or care to admit. Clearly it ain't something a reasonable person in faer right mind would think.
ChatteringMonkey January 22, 2021 at 11:10 #491496
Reply to Banno

Interesting read, thanks.

I'm not sure what to make of it yet. It's seems a plausible psychological account for what "putting cruelty first" would entail, at face value.

What is interesting to me though is the idea that cruelty has to be a vice, and born out of vice... out of psychological deformities. Because in Montaignes world it's not only the zealot that is cruel, everybody is cruel... it's just that it is especially damning for Christianity because it is considered a vice there too. Hence the misanthropy.

If everybody is cruel, wouldn't that entail, given the idea that cruelty is a vice, that everybody is psychologically deformed. What then would be the cause of that deformity?

Culture could be one answer, but that seems like a difficult case to make considering that the culture was Christian and Christianity considers cruelty a vice. So it seems rather that culture is unsuccessful in rooting out something that is already there. Or maybe you would have to invoke some other opposing cultural influence as the cause, or maybe Christianity having a particularly inverse effect here?

But if not culture, then that would mean that we are cruel naturally, which would mean that we are psychologically deformed naturally. This seems problematic too, by itself. And while maybe you could make an argument for this, it would presumably have to entail some kind of supra-natural standard, from which you can evaluate that nature?

So while I definitely have the same intuition as Montaigne, I'm not sure how you would argue the point from a psychological descriptive point of view, not in the least because a certain Moustache, I will not invoke his name, gives a psychological account for cruelty at base precisely not being born out of deformity.
Outlander January 22, 2021 at 19:01 #491643
Quoting Banno
Placing cruelty first, the most evil of all evils, is incompatible with the faith of the zealot.


That. Or it means you were pretty darn sure you'd succeed... wouldn't want to be caught on the opposing end of that dynamic. However, seeing as history is written by the winners anyway, the most virtuous could be caught up in said dynamic regardless of their virtue or cruelty.. as some people like to attest.. "damned if you do, damned if you don't."

Besides, what is cruelty, really? Allowing a child to grow up in a broken home, more or less alone? Perhaps. Though, if said caregiver knew they wouldn't be around to raise them, an argument can be made that provided the child ended up growing up with "grit and gristle", able to fend for themselves before adulthood, and able to withstand the torrents of pain, despair, and loneliness without losing hope or at the very least purpose.. compared to babying someone who in this world truly has no such luxury and would find this out in due time... assuming both facts are known, what act would really have been the most cruel?

I had a dog once. Truly a great friend who got me through many a rough patch in my adolescence. As I got older, life got hectic, things got crazy. One day while I was busy working at home, I noticed he seemed to have been in the same spot for several hours. When I came up to him I noticed as he attempted to rise to greet me, his back legs buckled and could not support him. I was unsure as what to do. Veterinarian surgery was not an option at the time, and the consensus was it was probably time to put him to sleep. I had a gun, and could have asked the vet to do it humanely. Both possibilities anguished me. I waited for some time, purchasing a few items to allow him to walk around more or less the same. He survived for a decent amount of time after. But was he happy? It's a question I don't particularly care to ponder.
TheMadFool January 22, 2021 at 19:39 #491657
Reply to Banno I just skimmed through the article and so I'm uncertain whether Shklar touched upon the point I feel is pertinent to her taking an exception to putting cruelty first. Hell, if memory serves, in its current incarnation as a place of eternal torture is the handiwork of religions; before religions hell was simply a world for the souls of dead people whether good or bad. Cruelty, in the form of hell, enjoys the support of nearly all existing faiths and if so what's implied is cruelty, as odd as it sounds, can't be a sin let alone first among sins for even the all-good creator permits and even commands it (in hell).
Banno January 22, 2021 at 20:39 #491672
Quoting Outlander
Besides, what is cruelty, really?


"It was simply a matter of exposing the triviality of the excuses offered for the enormous harms inflicted on primitive peoples."

Banno January 22, 2021 at 20:41 #491674
Reply to ChatteringMonkey The article can certainly be read as a critique of Nietzsche.
ssu January 22, 2021 at 21:53 #491688
Quoting Banno
Shklar's great knowledge of the Enlightenment contrasts Machiavelli to Montaigne and Montesquieu.

How would Machiavelli know about Enlightenment? For a philosopher who built her career in Post-WW2 American academics in one of the most famous Ivy League Universities, it's obviously a more easier task.

Basically, Machiavelli wrote The Prince for basically a ruling Mafioso.

So what kind of instructions and guidelines would Pablo Escobar or the current leaders of the Mexican drug cartels value in their reality in which they live? Would Shklar be useful to them for practical guidelines in their day-to-day work? Both Pablo and Judith lived in the same time, so it would have been theoretically possible.

Basically my point here is that we never should take a philosopher out of his time, place and context when we look at what he says. Or at least the author should remind the reader that when and where a philosopher lived and how different were those circumstances. In fact when the circumstances are noted, then truly revolutionary or groundbreaking thinking can be found. Machiavelli or Hobbes come to mind when people compare them to later philosophers, but whenever Machiavelli is referred to I come a bit critical. Niccolo is a low bar in my view to paint as the bad guy and to take an intellectual whack at him.

(And anyway, a good politician should never admit reading or even knowing anything about Machiavelli. It's such an obvious and typical way to attack and smear someone as being Machiavellian.)
ChatteringMonkey January 22, 2021 at 22:17 #491693
Reply to ssu

She contrast Machiavelli to Montaigne, who were not that far apart, and to Montesquieu who live a bit later, but there she does make note of differences in cultural contexts.

Also, it's not about painting Machiavelli a bad guy in some kind of moralistic sense, read the article and you'll see, it's not that long.
ssu January 22, 2021 at 22:25 #491695
Reply to ChatteringMonkey

There has been in recent years a considerable literature on Machiavelli, most of
it admiring his most ‘realistic’ pages. I have tried to present the views of those
who rejected him, not because they were moved by religious or moral illusions,
but because they were more realistic, had read Plato’s remarks about dirty hands
more carefully, and were more honest.


More honest, more realistic, when there has been in "recent years a considerable literature on Machiavelli, most of it admiring his most ‘realistic’ pages". :brow:

I think that still Judith is hitting Niccolo...or others of saying something positive about him.
ChatteringMonkey January 22, 2021 at 22:33 #491696
Reply to ssu

Yes, I think that quote is in line with what I said, usually Machiavelli is dismissed because of some moral evaluation, he is bad/immoral because of this and that. But that is usually not all that convincing because he is not really making normative claims, he sticks to a-moral description and prediction. She tries to make an argument on his terms, i.e that his description and the conclusions he draws from them are not really realistic... if she succeeds is another matter, but it's at least an argument that is aimed at the right place.
Banno January 23, 2021 at 01:14 #491738
In The Liberalism of Fear, Shklar posits the following definition of liberalism:
Every adult should be able to make as many effective decisions without fear or favour about as many aspects of her or his life as is compatible with the like freedom of every other adult.


It's an excellent definition of liberalism. For my part I might replace "freedom" with "welfare", but the basic theme seems undeniable, given basic rational concerns of coherence and consistency.

Liberalisms foundation is, for Shklar, to be found in the abhorrence of cruelty:
..the deliberate infliction of physical, and secondarily emotional, pain upon a weaker person or group by stronger ones in order to achieve some end, tangible or intangible, of the latter.


It is contrasted with the Kantian liberalism of conscience, the (US) Constitutional liberalism of Rights, the Liberalism of self-expression, which last I might compare with the capabilities approach of Nussbaum.

The liberalism of fear is not bound to theism, nor to atheism. It is not bound to scepticism, nor is it in essence scientific. But each of these is a fellow-traveler. It stands against class distinctions.

The liberalism of fear might better have been called the liberalism of valour.

(A better PDF would be advantageous...?)

jorndoe January 23, 2021 at 17:18 #491890
Haven't read the two articles yet, just glossed over a few paragraphs.

[quote=The Liberalism of Fear by Judith N Shklar]
Every adult should be able to make as many effective decisions without fear or favor about as many aspects of her or his life as is compatible with the like freedom of every other adult. [...] Apart from prohibiting interference with the freedom of others, liberalism does not have any particular positive doctrines about how people are to conduct their lives or what personal choices they are to make.
[/quote]

Just FYI, there is some history to this take on liberalism/liberty/freedom. Elements can be found in the Cortes of León (1188), the Codex Holmiensis (1241), ..., the Universal Declaration of Human Rights (1948), this one in particular (which Thomas Jefferson aided in putting together):

Quoting Declaration of the Rights of Man and of the Citizen of 1789

Article IV – Liberty consists of doing anything which does not harm others: thus, the exercise of the natural rights of each man has only those borders which assure other members of the society the fruition of these same rights. These borders can be determined only by the law.


The French Revolution was nasty business, but they did seem to flesh some things out well for the future — only equal freedom in principle limits individual freedom.

Embedding morals in political codes doesn't seem easy, but restricting freedom to non-cruelty is certainly intuitive. Looking forward to actually reading the articles. (y) :)

NOS4A2 January 23, 2021 at 18:32 #491912
Reply to Banno

Thanks for the read.


“Every adult should be able to make as many effective decisions without fear or favour about as many aspects of her or his life as is compatible with the like freedom of every other adult.”

It's an excellent definition of liberalism. For my part I might replace "freedom" with "welfare", but the basic theme seems undeniable, given basic rational concerns of coherence and consistency.


I’m curious why you would replace “freedom” with “welfare” when the root word of “liberalism” suggests one but not the other. It seems to me that limiting one’s freedom to only that which is compatible with the like welfare of others is not liberalism, perhaps something more like “welfarism”.
frank January 23, 2021 at 18:51 #491918
Reply to NOS4A2
A certain level of well-being is required in order to to enjoy autonomy. We are all slaves to our basic needs. Where there is no security, there is no freedom. This understanding was gained from labor struggles of the 19th and 20th centuries.

It may appear that masters of capital are free, but they aren't in the sense that was important to Abraham Lincoln. He saw freedom as the recognition that one is not defined by the role one is playing in the world. True freedom is demonstrated by social mobility. When a society stratifies, everyone becomes locked into their roles. Lincoln would say that when people get used to having someone else do their work for them, they lose sight of the meaning of freedom.

Lack of access to food, education, and employment opportunities doesn't just rob people of well-being. It robs them of social mobility. It robs them of freedom.
Banno January 23, 2021 at 19:48 #491944
Reply to NOS4A2 Oh, I'm not advocating liberalism. Indeed my reading these articles is in part my seeking to delineate that separation. The capabilities approach, comparable to the liberty of self-expression, appeals more. Folk group together in order to achieve more, both for themselves and for others.

Cruelty is denying someone that of which they are capable. It's not enough to fear cruelty. We can do the opposite to being cruel, by building on folk's capabilities.
NOS4A2 January 24, 2021 at 03:04 #492118
Reply to frank

It is true that a certain level of well-being is required to enjoy autonomy, and there is a strong moral argument that we should care for the well-being of others. I also agree that one must secure his freedom, with force if necessary.

But these to me are moral considerations, best left to the decisions of free people. Just as people such as yourself should have the freedom to act on your moral beliefs, others should have the freedom to do otherwise, and for the same reason.
NOS4A2 January 24, 2021 at 03:05 #492119
Reply to Banno

Thanks for the clarification.

I would say liberalism allows such an approach, though, to the point of it becoming institutionalized or even generally accepted.
Changeling January 24, 2021 at 04:28 #492139
Reply to NOS4A2 yo TPF persona non grata dude - are you into dictators?
NOS4A2 January 24, 2021 at 04:48 #492140
Reply to The Opposite

No. Are you?
Changeling January 24, 2021 at 05:10 #492144
Reply to NOS4A2 nah. You don't think trump had designs on that path? (Wrong thread I know)
NOS4A2 January 24, 2021 at 05:16 #492146
Reply to The Opposite

I do not, no, and his presidency has proven that to be the case.
Changeling January 24, 2021 at 05:25 #492149
Reply to NOS4A2 and the end of his presidency proved it to be the case.
ssu January 24, 2021 at 10:45 #492211
Quoting ChatteringMonkey
usually Machiavelli is dismissed because of some moral evaluation, he is bad/immoral because of this and that. But that is usually not all that convincing because he is not really making normative claims, he sticks to a-moral description and prediction. She tries to make an argument on his terms, i.e that his description and the conclusions he draws from them are not really realistic... if she succeeds is another matter, but it's at least an argument that is aimed at the right place.

We simply shouldn't forget that even ages ago people understood to whom you are talking defines the message.

It's not just that Machiavelli isn't making normative claims, it's to whom he is talking. And so is with Montaigne, a politician of his era. I just reason that someone that says " it was more efficient for a self-made ruler to govern cruelly or leniently, and had decided that, on the whole, cruelty worked best." simply isn't talking to the greater public or making a portrayal of himself.

Montaigne published his Essay to record "some traits of my character and of my humours." Or the way the net puts it:

Montaigne's stated goal in his book is to describe himself with utter frankness and honesty ("bonne foi"). The insight into human nature provided by his essays, for which they are so widely read, is merely a by-product of his introspection. Though the implications of his essays were profound and far-reaching, he did not intend or suspect that his work would garner much attention outside of his inner circle, prefacing his essays with, "I am myself the matter of this book; you would be unreasonable to suspend your leisure on so frivolous and vain a subject."


It's obvious when someone is basically cleaning his image, he would say as Shklar referred "that
the sight of cruelty instantly filled him with revulsion." Montaigne lived during the brutal Wars of Religion in France and being a politician during that time, a courtier of Charles IX among other jobs, a king that allowed the cruel massacre of St Bartholomew's Day, is the era that affected Montaigne's experiences. Montaigne, it should be noted, tried to be a moderator between Catholics and Protestants. But his essay wasn't written as advice to Charles IX or his successor.

Book273 January 24, 2021 at 11:00 #492213
Quoting ChatteringMonkey
If everybody is cruel, wouldn't that entail, given the idea that cruelty is a vice, that everybody is psychologically deformed. What then would be the cause of that deformity?


if everyone is psychologically deformed, would that not suggest, rather than a deformation, everyone has a certain , unappealing, aspect or proclivity to cruelty? How is it a deformity if it is universal?
ssu January 24, 2021 at 11:10 #492217
Quoting Banno
It's an excellent definition of liberalism. For my part I might replace "freedom" with "welfare", but the basic theme seems undeniable, given basic rational concerns of coherence and consistency.

Yet doesn't Shklar also note in "Liberalism of Fear" that:

No form of liberalism has any business telling the citizenry to pursue happiness or even to define that wholly elusive condition


Because replacing freedom with "welfare" seems quite a specific agenda, if telling to pursue happiness is something that Shklar rejects as unwanted interference from the powers at be.
frank January 24, 2021 at 11:55 #492227
Quoting NOS4A2
It is true that a certain level of well-being is required to enjoy autonomy,


Yep. So a free society takes measures to secure the basic well-being of it's citizens.

Quoting NOS4A2
But these to me are moral considerations, best left to the decisions of free people


We won't have free people unless we look after well-being. This isn't a moralistic insight.
TheMadFool January 24, 2021 at 15:17 #492278
The late Judith Shklar begins by showing how Montaigne and Montesquieu, although there are subtle differences between the two, are of the view that cruelty is universal as a practice, transcending all boundaries that carve people up into different camps whatever these may be based on.

It's probably the case that Shklar herself was neither the first nor the last to discuss cruelty but what I find intriguing is how she focuses not on cruelty itself but on its ranking among evils. That's a fresh point of view on the issue as far as I'm concerned.

Why should cruelty occupy the top slot among evils? or, of more significance, what are the consequences of treating cruelty as summum malum?

If cruelty is the worst form of evil, we must give up the cherished idea that we're better than and must come to terms with the bitter truth that we're, in fact, the worst of the lot. Just as I suspected.

Furthermore, according to Shklar we're in the unenviable position of being torn between private and public life and I'm only guessing here but she thought the latter,as a public figure, puts us in situations that may force us to act with cruelty even though as an individual, as a private person, one may have a touch of reservation behaving that way. From this point on I suggest you fill in the gaps...
NOS4A2 January 24, 2021 at 17:33 #492327
Reply to frank

Yep. So a free society takes measures to secure the basic well-being of it's citizens.


I disagree. Kind, paternalistic people such as yourself should secure the basic well-being of your fellow citizens and have the freedom to do so. Some will even desire your help. Others will prefer to pass on that, or otherwise refuse when someone wishes to tinker with the conditions of their well-being.

We won't have free people unless we look after well-being. This isn't a moralistic insight.


I completely disagree.
frank January 24, 2021 at 17:47 #492334
Reply to NOS4A2
Do you support laws against child labor?
NOS4A2 January 24, 2021 at 18:04 #492342
Reply to frank

Not really.
frank January 24, 2021 at 18:14 #492350
Reply to NOS4A2
It appears that kind, paternalistic people like myself have become rooted in the status quo. Is that frustrating for you?
NOS4A2 January 24, 2021 at 18:20 #492352
Reply to frank

Not at all. I see real kindness in individual acts, not in the advocacy of this or that policy.
frank January 24, 2021 at 18:23 #492354
Quoting NOS4A2
Not at all



Sounds like you've adapted nicely to contemporary liberalism then. :up:
NOS4A2 January 24, 2021 at 18:38 #492362
Reply to frank

A soft despotism is a despotism nonetheless.
ChatteringMonkey January 24, 2021 at 19:14 #492383
Quoting Book273
If everybody is cruel, wouldn't that entail, given the idea that cruelty is a vice, that everybody is psychologically deformed. What then would be the cause of that deformity?
— ChatteringMonkey

if everyone is psychologically deformed, would that not suggest, rather than a deformation, everyone has a certain , unappealing, aspect or proclivity to cruelty? How is it a deformity if it is universal?


That's exactly what I'm asking. A deformity would suggest that something caused it other than 'nature' or evolution, if it were natural we would call it something like a proclivity, yes. Montaigne, and with him a lot people, seem to think it's a deformity though. So the question in that account is then, what caused it?
Banno January 24, 2021 at 19:28 #492395
Reply to ssu Happiness? What's that got to do with it? Why such an eccentric question?
ChatteringMonkey January 24, 2021 at 19:30 #492396
Quoting ssu
It's obvious when someone is basically cleaning his image, he would say as Shklar referred "that the sight of cruelty instantly filled him with revulsion."


Yeah ok, but I don't think Montaigne is saying that only to clean up his image, I think he means it, or at least it seems like he does to me.
frank January 24, 2021 at 19:35 #492404
Quoting NOS4A2
A soft despotism is a despotism nonetheless


You said you're ok with it, so I guess you're ok with despotism. :confused:
Banno January 24, 2021 at 19:38 #492405
Quoting ChatteringMonkey
Machiavelli... is not really making normative claims, he sticks to a-moral description and prediction.


Quoting ssu
It's not just that Machiavelli isn't making normative claims...


From SEP:
Machiavelli criticizes at length precisely this moralistic view of authority in his best-known treatise, The Prince. For Machiavelli, there is no moral basis on which to judge the difference between legitimate and illegitimate uses of power.


Seems he was making normative claims.
ChatteringMonkey January 24, 2021 at 19:48 #492415
Quoting Banno
From SEP:
Machiavelli criticizes at length precisely this moralistic view of authority in his best-known treatise, The Prince. For Machiavelli, there is no moral basis on which to judge the difference between legitimate and illegitimate uses of power.

Seems he was making normative claims.


Is that a normative claim though? Seem more like a meta-normative/a-moral claim to me.
Banno January 24, 2021 at 19:53 #492416
Reply to ChatteringMonkeyLooks a bit contrived. Isn't he talking about what the Prince should do?
ChatteringMonkey January 24, 2021 at 19:58 #492422
Reply to Banno

You do have a-moral or hypothetical shoulds, no? If you want healthy teeth, then you should brush your teeth.... is that a moral claim? I'd say no. And I think it's that kind of should statements he is making. If you want to stay in power as a prince etc...
Banno January 24, 2021 at 20:07 #492427
Reply to ChatteringMonkey Sure, a pretence of being amoral as a rhetorical ploy. Are you taken in by that? Surely not.
ssu January 24, 2021 at 20:27 #492443
Reply to Banno Seem you didn't get my point.
ChatteringMonkey January 24, 2021 at 20:43 #492453
Reply to Banno I'm not sure, I'm not exactly a Machiavelli scholar, I read The prince.

What do you think he is saying then, that a ruler should be cruel, not because that is how you best stay in power (as a matter of causal description), but as some kind a moral imperative? That would be a weird thing to say.

Or maybe you think he says these things as some kind of apologetics for abject behaviour? That could make more sense.

I guess my question is, if it's rethorics, what is it he's trying to sell then? Maybe himself as a potential advisor to the prince, that could make sense too.
ssu January 24, 2021 at 20:46 #492455
Quoting ChatteringMonkey
Yeah ok, but I don't think Montaigne is saying that only to clean up his image, I think he means it, or at least it seems like he does to me.

If he was a mediator between the Protestants and the Catholics, he surely meant it.

Yet I think that many politicians could honestly agree with Montaigne and then when engaged in politics follow the advice of Machiavelli.


Banno January 24, 2021 at 20:59 #492460
Reply to ChatteringMonkey

Ask the obvious question: is he telling the Prince what to do? If so, it's a moral document.
frank January 24, 2021 at 21:09 #492465
Quoting Banno
Ask the obvious question: is he telling the Prince what to do? If so, it's a moral document.


You're agreeing with Nietzsche. :up:
ChatteringMonkey January 24, 2021 at 21:13 #492467
Quoting ssu
Yeah ok, but I don't think Montaigne is saying that only to clean up his image, I think he means it, or at least it seems like he does to me.
— ChatteringMonkey
If he was a mediator between the Protestants and the Catholics, he surely meant it.

Yet I think that many politicians could honestly agree with Montaigne and then when engaged in politics follow the advice of Machiavelli.


Ok, so you saying that they are talking about different things then? Machiavelli about how to be effective in politics, and Montaigne more about his own personal view on things. I probably agree with that for the most part.
baker January 24, 2021 at 21:17 #492469
Quoting Banno
Isn't he talking about what the Prince should do?

There has been a long debate as to whether the text should be taken at face value or not:
Interpretation of The Prince as political satire or as deceit
Banno January 24, 2021 at 21:26 #492475
Reply to frank

I'm thinking Machiavelli and Nietzsche use the same conceit: that they can tell folk what to do while pretending not to be moralising.
ChatteringMonkey January 24, 2021 at 21:26 #492476
Quoting Banno
Ask the obvious question: is he telling the Prince what to do? If so, it's a moral document.


Sure, moral in the widest sense.

My original point was just that Machiavelli's claims like, "It's better to act cruel" could be refuted in a couple of different ways: Either by saying that cruelty is simply bad (which would be a moral evaluation) or by saying that cruelty does in fact not contribute to staying in power (which would be more a matter of causation). If Machiavelli is predominantly making claims in the latter sense, then it would seem more convincing to me to try to refute them on those terms.
frank January 24, 2021 at 21:43 #492485
Quoting Banno
'm thinking Machiavelli and Nietzsche use the same conceit: that they can tell folk what to do while pretending not to be moralising.


Machiavelli was trying to explain how mercy can lead to chaos. You could call that master morality, but I don't think he thought of it that way.

Chaos victimizes everyone.
ssu January 24, 2021 at 22:11 #492496
Quoting ChatteringMonkey
Ok, so you saying that they are talking about different things then?

To different audiences, I would say.

We can see this phenomenon quite well even today. What people say publicly and what they say behind closed doors is different. That doesn't mean that they are dishonest, but simply understand that the two are different. There are enough people that eagerly take anything publicly said and portray it in the worst possible light to promote their own agenda.
Banno January 24, 2021 at 22:14 #492499
The opening one turns Machiavelli upside down. In The Prince, Machiavelli had asked whether it was more efficient for a self-made ruler to govern cruelly or leniently, and had decided that, on the whole, cruelty worked best. Montaigne raised the question that the prince’s victims might ask: Was it better to plead for pity or display defiance in the face of cruelty? There are no certain answers, he concluded. Victims have no certainties. They must cope, without guide books to help them. The second of the Essays deals with the sadness of those whose children and friends die. And the third suggests that one might take precautions against the terrors of princes. If there were an established review of the deeds of princes as soon as they died, their passion for posthumous fame might restrain them here and now. Even Machiavelli had noted that an indiscriminate butcher was not likely to enjoy the best of reputations in history, even if he should have succeeded in all his enterprises. Montaigne was only too aware of how cruel the passion for fame made ambitious princes, and he did not really place mush hope in any restraining devices. But by reading The Prince, as one of its victims might, Montaigne set a great distance between his own and Machiavelli’s classicism.Putting cruelty first was thus a reaction to the new science of politics. It did not reconcile Montaigne to revealed religion. Indeed, it only reinforced his conviction that Christianity had done nothing to inhibit cruelty. He could not even admit that his hatred of cruelty was a residual form of Christian morality. On the contrary, it only exacerbated his antagonism to established religiosity.